Sib cav sib ceg. Yuav ua li cas rau reconcile tsev neeg thiab cov lug txhawb cov miv?

Nyob rau hauv lub neej, muaj ntau feem ntau yam teeb meem uas koj hlub sawv daws yuav los yog lug txhawb cov miv sib cav sib ceg. Nyob rau hauv ib tes, zoo dua thiab ntau smarter tsis txuam nyob rau hauv lwm tus neeg lub affairs. Thiab nyob rau hauv lwm yam - lawv tsis txhob mus cuam tshuam, yog tias qhov no sib cav sib ceg, ib txoj kev los sis lwm, muaj feem xyuam rau koj? Nws yog nyuaj heev nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw ntawm qhov teeb meem. Tab sis yuav tsum tau conciliatory, dhau lawm, nws tsis yog ib qho yooj yim: koj yuav tsum tau rhiab heev thiab ceev faj, vim hais tias yog ib yam dab tsi mus tsis ncaj ncees lawm, koj yuav mus thab cov sib cav sib ceg los yog txawm lub derision rau cov neeg uas tseem tabtom mus rau reconcile. Txawm li cas los, muaj ib co kev cai yooj yim los pab koj nyiaj dhau koj lub hom phiaj ntawm reconciliation.

Txoj cai tooj 1. Ua ntej koj yuav cuam tshuam nyob rau hauv ib tug sib cav sib ceg, nrhiav seb lawv xav kom nws lawv tus kheej rau cov neeg mus qhov teeb meem. Hais kom txhua ntawm lawv yog hais tias koj yuav pab tau lawv ntxiv qhov teeb meem no thiab sim rau reconcile rau lawv. Tab sis nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub tsis kom lawv pab thiab tsis txhob tu siab yog tias cov neeg tsis lees paub nws. Nco ntsoov, nws yog tag nrho cov tib mus rau lawv.

Txoj Cai tooj 2. Tsis txhob sim rau reconcile cov neeg tam sim ntawd tom qab lub altercation. Thaum tseem seething cwj pwm txawv thiab resentments yog heev tshiab thiab muaj zog, tsis hais nyob rau hauv kev sib haum xeeb hais lus, txwv tsis pub lub caij nplooj zeeg nyob rau hauv lub kub txhais tes. Muab sij hawm rau txias thiab zoo. Thaum cov hmoov av settles, nws yuav yooj yim los mus ua kom ib kauj ruam ntawm reconciliation.

Txoj Cai tooj 3. Feem ntau cov yuav, txhua yam ntawm cov nqe lus ntawm tw yuav nrhiav kev los nyiam koj mus rau lawv sab, tsis txhob poob mus rau hauv no cuab - mus nyob twj ywm nruab nrab. Muaj ntau tsis sib haum tshwm sim vim miscommunication, li ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb mus nrhiav qhov teeb meem no los ntawm sab nraum. Yog li ntawd koj yuav yooj yim rau to taub qhov ua rau ntawm tus mob thiab pab sib sib cav.

Txoj Cai tooj 4. Koj hlub sawv daws yuav tsum paub tias koj tsis yog ib tug neeg siab phem li thiab tsis ua si nrog ib tug neeg rau ib tug tshaj plaws thiab ces koj yuav txiav txim rau lawv haum. Tsis txhob qhia rau leej twg ntawm cov neeg koom uas nws yog txoj cai, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv ib tug sib cav sib ceg muaj ib feem ntawm kev txhaum ntawm txhua tog.

Txoj cai tooj 5. Nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm reconciliation, koj yuav kawm tau ntau yam txog cov kev phiv ob tog mus rau lub teeb meem, nws yuav ua tau raws li speculation txog cov motives ntawm kev ua, los yog txawm tus kheej secrets. Tsis txhob maj mus ntseeg cov lus qhia no, kom paub tseeb tias koj hais lus, yog ib tug ntawm txhob sib ceg lawm paub ib yam dab tsi ntxiv txog lwm sib cav sib ceg lov tawm nrog ib tug Bang thiab nphav koj ncaj qha.

Txoj Cai tooj 6. Tsis txhob sim kom koj yaum tau sib cav txog ntsiag li qhov teeb meem, thiab ua txuj tias tsis muaj dab tsi tshwm sim. Cia li muab cov ntaub ntawv ncaj kuv yuav to taub yuav ua li cas, yog li ntawd qhov teeb meem yuav tsis tshwm sim dua.

Txoj Cai tooj 7. sib cav nyob rau hauv lub ya tsis kam mus sib? Nws yog lawv txoj cai. Tej zaum lawv tseem tsis tau npaj txhij, thiab tej zaum mob heev npaum li cas. Koj cia li tau txais nws.

Nco ntsoov cov cai no thiab koj yuav tau mus rau reconcile lawv hlub. Paub puas paub zoo caum ib tug ua txhaum thiab nws yog yooj yim los mus ua kom kev thaj yeeb nrog ib tug neeg, thaum koj to taub yog vim li cas nws ua li ntawd nws.