Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum ua li cas yog kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam? Yuav ua li cas to taub koj tus kheej.

Yuav ua li cas yuav tsum ua li cas yog kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam? cov poj niam nug lo lus nug no tag nrho cov thoob lub ntiaj teb no. Nws tag nrho cov nyob ntawm qhov teeb meem thiab lawv tus kheej. Cov neeg uas nug: "Vim li cas tus Tswv Vajtswv tsis tau muab kuv lub siab?" tseeb nyob rau hauv feem ntau tus neeg mob tsis txaus tus cwj pwm rau nws tus kheej. Tej zaum qhov liam stereotypes uas yog ib feem ntawm peb lub neej. Yeej, lawv tuaj mus nrog cov txiv neej yog vim li cas cov poj niam yog cov neeg ruam, thiab peb yog cov ntse cov txiv neej muaj nyiaj mus dhau lawv ua dag lus thiab deeds? Ib tug poj niam uas paub nws muaj nqis, thiab muaj ib tug self-esteem yuav tsis ua hmoog rau xws ruam comments.

Thiab yog dab tsi txog qhov tsuas universally ntau misconception uas pojniam plaub hau daj fools? Cov neeg uas xav li ntawd, txawm tias tus essence ntawm qhov teeb meem thiab nug yog hais tias lawv paub hais tias cov brunettes ntau li ntau ntse raws li ntawm kev ncaj ncees-haired cov poj niam. Cia li nyob rau hauv peb lub neej thiaj li tau txais, peb tua cov neeg uas yog nyob rau hauv cov haiv neeg tsawg, los yog ib yam dab tsi sib txawv ntawm cov feem ntau. Pojniam plaub hau daj - ib tug tsawg phenomenon, ntawm chav kawm peb yuav tsis tham txog cov neeg uas dyes nws cov plaub hau. Ib tug xws li tus poj niam yog yug los kaum tsaus-haired tej. Yog li ntawd ua ntej koj yuav ua txhaum rau tej tawm tsam, lub pojniam plaub hau daj uas paub nws muaj nqis, muaj ntau yam xav hais tias dua.

Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, cov nqe lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam, yog rau hauv qeb ntawm cov neeg uas muaj tsis muaj lus teb. Yuav ua li cas yog tawm yog hais tias tej zaum peb hais cov lus, cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov uas tsis yog tag nrho paub. Tom qab tag nrho, ib tug neeg ruam - qhov no yog ib tug collective duab, implies ib tug ua txawv cov ntawm lus ntawm zoo xws li cov ntsiab lus: ruam, irresponsible, tawg khiav ri niab, inattentive, ze thiab thiaj li nyob. Cov kev siv ntawm cov lus rau nws tus kheej hais tias tsuas hais txog cov uas tsis muaj self-esteem thiab tsis muaj ntawm nws tus kheej-kev qhuab qhia.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb hais tias thaum koj nug koj tus kheej, yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam, uas txhais tau tias koj yeej paub hais tias muaj ib co kev ncua hauv koj tus cwj pwm los yog outlook on lub neej. Thiab hais tias yog zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, tus neeg ntawd yog kiag li nqaim-minded thiab ruam tsuas xav tsis txhawj nyob rau ntawd tau. Tej cov tib neeg muaj feem ntau rau qhov tsis tooj ntseeg nyob rau hauv lawv tus kheej, thiab nyob rau hauv Feem ntau ib tug loj tsom xam ntawm qhov teeb meem no tsis yog rau lawv.

Yog vim li cas koj kiam rau koj tus kheej? Nws yog lub sij hawm mus xav txog nws, vim hais tias nws muaj peev xwm ho lwj koj lub neej. Peb muaj dab tsi peb xav txog peb tus kheej. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj chant lub mantra, dab tsi yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam, uas nyob rau hauv lub kawg neeg yeej xav txog koj nqaim-minded neeg uas behaves tsis tshua muaj neeg tsis zoo. Tej tug cwj pwm yuav ua rau ib tug ntau ntawm yog vim li cas. Hai txoj hauj lwm kev sib tham, parting nrog ib tug neeg hlub ib tug, tsis nco qab, tsis tus, los yog xaiv tsis tau - tag nrho cov no tsis tau tsuas ua rau koj mus bouts ntawm nws tus kheej-flagellation thiab nws tus kheej-kev thuam. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, tsis yog txhua txhua twb paub lawm hais tias cov neeg txom nyem los ntawm cov tib qhov teeb meem no los yog cim zoo nyob rau hauv abundance. Tab sis rau ib txhia yog vim li cas lawv tsis hu lawv tus kheej yog neeg ruam. Lawv cia li hlub koj tus kheej rau lub meej mom thiab tsis blamed rau lub shortcomings.

Lwm yam, yog tias koj tau ua nws tus kheej xws li ib tug xaus, raws li nyob rau hauv lub tswv yim ntawm cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm koj. Yog hais tias koj hais tias koj yog ib tug neeg ruam, nws tsis txhais hais tias nws yog. Tus txiv neej qhia xws li ib lub tswv yim, yuav rau siab ntso nrhiav txawv hom phiaj, nqis mus rau nce nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv koj tom qab. Yog li ntawd, yog hais tias koj hnov xws li offensive lus los ntawm ib tug neeg hlub ib tug, nws yog, ntawm chav kawm, lig tsis tsim nyog thiab outrageous. Nws yeej yog ib tug hlub tus txiv los yog ib tug txheeb ze yuav tsis qhia nej tej yam.

Qhov loj tshaj plaws koj yuav tsum tau ua yog hais tias koj quaj los kuamuag vim cov nqe lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv yog ib tug neeg ruam, tsis txhob mus xav li ntawd. Koj tus kheej yog twv yuav raug hu heev understated, thiab nws xav tau kev pab kom tsa tau maj mam thiab rau siab. Koj yuav tsum tau them ntau dua sai sai rau lawv yam ntxwv thiab tus cwj pwm qhov zoo. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj xav txog tej yam xws li ib tug self-tseem ceeb heev. Txhua leej txhua tus nws muaj nws drawbacks thiab yuav tsum tau kho lawv kom tsim nyog thiab thoughtfully.