Qhov tseem qab ntxiag caij rau txhua txhua tus niam - cov no yog cov thawj lo lus ntawm tus me nyuam. Hais lus txoj kev loj hlob nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv txoj kev ntawm lub neej ntawm niam thaum lub sij hawm cev xeeb tub thiab cov me nyuam txoj kev psyche, los ntawm noob caj noob ces, los ntawm lub cheeb tsam nyob rau hauv uas tus me nyuam loj hlob thiab npaj, thiab yuav ua li cas kwm nrog nws koom niam txiv. Lub ntsiab hauj lwm ntawm kuv niam, nyob rau hauv lem, yog los pab rau cov me nyuam tsim kom zoo thiab yuam tus txheej txheem ntawm tsim ntawm kev hais lus. Ntawm no yog cov tswv yim rau cov tub ntxhais leej niam, yuav ua li cas qhia cov me nyuam kom txawj hais lus. Yog li ntawd, nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim tias tus me nyuam tau kawm hais sai sai, kuv niam yuav tsum tau kawm kom tawm tswv yim rau tej yam ntawm koj txoj cai. Ces tus me nyuam yuav muaj menyuam txhua txav thiab qhia niam thiab khi lawv nyob rau hauv lub ntsiab lus. Uas yog vim li cas, ua txawm tias qhov nyuaj yam, tawm tswv yim nyob rau hauv nws cov kev txiav txim rau cov me nyuam yaus. Nws kuj yog ib tug tseem ceeb heev taw tes nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem no yog mus nyeem cov me nyuam cov phau ntawv. Zaj lus qhia no yuav tsum tau muab yam tsawg 15 feeb ib hnub twg. Phau ntawv ntshaw kom xaiv cov yeeb yuj, nrog cov duab los qhia tus me nyuam cov duab nrog koj tus ntiv tes thaum koj nyeem. Nyeem maj mam thiab xav tau cov kev paub qhia lo raug. Yog hais tias thaum nyeem ntawv rau tus me nyuam pib mus saws thiab tau distracted los ntawm extraneous yam, nws txhais tau tias nws tau poob kev txaus siab nyob rau hauv kev nyeem ntawv, thiab zoo tsis tau nres nws. Yog hais tias koj xav mus saib lub tib tus me nyuam, koj tsis tas yuav las mees xws li ib tug thov nws, vim hais tias koj muaj peev xwm thuam nws tus paj laum nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv. Yog hais tias cov me nyuam yaus nyiam ib tug taleas, muaj yog tsis muaj yuav tsum tau muab nws nyeem nws dua, vim hais tias cov repetition - yog zoo. Coj zaug nrog tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau tsuas yog thaum nws yog nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo mus ob peb vas. Yog hais tias tus me nyuam yog tsis nyob rau hauv tus ntsuj plig, nws yog zoo dua rau ncua kawm ntawv. Menyuam kev loj hlob nyob nkaus rau lub dag zog ntawm nws niam nws txiv. Thaum tus me nyuam yog me me, nws yog ib tug tsheb ciav hlau, thiab yog hais tias koj tsis tau lub sij hawm no, nws yuav twb yuav nyuaj heev rau sau cov kis. Cov tswv yim yuav pab tau cov niam txiv rau teb rau lo lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas qhia cov me nyuam kom txawj hais lus?" Tab sis muaj mob thaum tus me nyuam yog ib lub xyoo tsis hais lus. Yuav ua li cas ces yuav tsum niam txiv ua li cas?
Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, tsis muaj yuav tsum tau ntshai. Txhua tus me nyuam yog sib txawv nyob rau hauv lawv txoj kev loj hlob, thiab muaj yog xws li hais tias cov me nyuam uas ntsiag to thiab mus txog rau 3 xyoo, thiab kuv tau mus rau hauv lub vaj, pib tham tsis siv ceev xwmphem. Tab sis tseem yuav tsum tau them rau qhov no qhov teeb meem tshwj xeeb mloog. Yog vim li cas rau qhov kev ncua ntawm kev hais lus txoj kev loj hlob nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam yuav ua tau ob peb: physiological yam ntxwv, kev loj hlob qeeb vim tsis muaj xim ntawm cov niam txiv, yog tsis muaj kev sib cuag nrog cov me nyuam ntawm cov tib lub hnub nyoog, los yog ntshai, tom qab uas tus me nyuam tsis kam los hais lus. Cov yog vim li cas yog tseem haum rau qhov teeb meem no, yog hais tias tus me nyuam tsis hais lus 2 xyoo.
Yog li ntawd, nrhiav kev tawm yog vim li cas rau qhov kev ncua ntawm kev hais lus, cov lus nug tshwm sim: "Yuav ua li cas qhia cov me nyuam kom txawj hais lus?"
Yuav pib, koj yuav tsum tau soj ntsuam los ntawm ib tug kws kho mob. Nws yuav txiav txim seb yog ib tug me nyuam tej deviations. Yog hais tias lawv tsis qhia li, ces koj yuav siv mus tsev thiab nrog tus me nyuam.
Los ntawm no tsab xov xwm, koj yuav tau yooj yim teb rau lo lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas qhia cov me nyuam kom txawj hais lus?" Hmoov zoo!