Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Qhia cov lies ntawm cov lus qhia. Psychology ntawm lies
Ib tug me nyuam yog tsis yug ib tug neeg dag. Nws ua li ntawd, nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev loj hlob, kev sib txuas lus, nkag mus rau hauv zej zog. Sau cia hais tias los ntawm kev qhia qhov tseeb, koj yuav cuag cov yam tshwm sim, nws pib mus pw. Paub tseeb yog tej zaum heev nyuaj, raws li thaum lub sij hawm ib tug kev sib tham ib tug neeg siv tag nrho cov kev sib txuas lus raws: hais lus, uas tsis yog-lus, kev coj cwj pwm. Yuav kom txiav txim sawv ua ntej koj ib tug dag los yog tsis yog, koj yuav tau them xim rau nws lub ntsej muag kab zauv, gestures, hwj tau lub cev thiab moj yam, suab nrov ntawm lub suab. Qhia cov lies ntawm cov lus qhia yuav kev soj xyuas tib neeg tus cwj pwm thaum lub sij hawm ib tug sib tham. Thaum nws twb dag, nws tau hloov cov tshuaj tiv thaiv thiab lub ntsej muag qhia.
piav tes piav taw
Psychology yog ib tug dag thiab ib tug kev hloov nyob rau hauv daim tawv nqaij xim. Cov neeg involuntarily blushes los yog, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, nws ua heev daj ntseg. Tsis tas li ntawd, tej yam tshwm sim ntawm insincerity yog trembling daim di ncauj, tom lawv, yaim. Nws yog ntseeg hais tias lub qhov muag - qhov no daim ntawv qhia ntawm peb puab lub xeev, yog li ntawd dilated cov menyuam kawm ntawv, nquag blinking kuj yog ib tug ua rau lub sijhawm twg los hais tias ib tug neeg yog dag rau koj. Ib yam yuav sib cav, yog hais tias tus neeg zoo li tam sim ntawd. Feem ntau yog thaum ib tug neeg yog qhia qhov tseeb, nws zoo koj ncaj nraim nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag. Yog hais tias 2/3 ntawm koj kev sib txuas lus koj ua qhov muag sib cuag, ces, yog vim li cas nyaj ib tus nrog sib ntaus ntawm dag muaj. Yog hais tias tag nrho cov sij hawm no, nws ntsia mus, ces feem ntau yuav, nws yog dag.
txiv neej lies kuj pom nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov xaiv ntawm antics. Yog hais tias nws frowned, ces tej zaum tsis qhia qhov tseeb. Cov ces ntawm lub ntsej muag kab zauv kuj pab raws li kev ntsuas ntawm kev dag ntxias. Los ntawm kev kawm rau qhov chaw, koj yuav maj mam pom nws txawv ntawm lub ntsej muag coj tus cwj pwm cim thiab ua kom tsim nyog cov lus xaus.
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Tu siab, txoj kev ntawm tebchaws lies tsawg kawg yog luag thiab ua hauj lwm, tab sis yuav tsum tau ib tug tshwj xeeb kev uas ua tau tsuas yog khav ntawm cov tub txawg. Tom qab tag nrho, cov neeg luag nyav nrog tib zaus raws li nyob rau hauv ib cov lus dag, thiab nyob rau hauv cov lus ntawm qhov tseeb. Tshwj xeeb faib ntau tshaj 50 hom ntawm smiles. Nyob rau hauv kev txiav txim falsehood nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los mus saib xyuas lawv cov yam ntxwv. Nws yog muaj pov thawj hais tias yog ib tug neeg di ncauj twv rov qab los ntawm cov hniav thiab cov tsim ib qho elongated kab, thiab nws nkawd ntiav luag, nws qhia tau hais tias courtesy of tus interlocutor, nws mloog, tab sis tsis yog lub siab dawb paug thiab zoo siab hlo qhia qhov tseeb. Thaum ib tug neeg yog dag, nws tau kuj zoo li ib txwm thiab tej zaum hysterically luag.
Tag nrho cov ntsej muag
Nta ntawm cov lus kev sib txuas lus manifested nyob rau hauv lub view ntawm lub interlocutor. Tej zaum, cia li saib tus neeg, koj yuav kawm tau ntau ntxiv txog tus txiv neej, nws puab ntiaj teb no, yaam puab paub thiab kev ntshai, kev tshaj mloog nws ntev hais lus. Raws li zoo, Ntsuam xyuas cov zuag qhia tag nrho ntawm lub ntsej muag qhia, koj muaj peev xwm ntes ib tug dag? Peb txoj kev los paub falsehood:
- Asymmetry. Lub ob halves ntawm tus tib neeg lub ntsej muag yeej ib txwm qhia cov tib lawm, uas yog tsuas yog nyob rau ib sab lawv muaj zog nyob rau lwm yam - ib tug me ntsis weaker. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, lub ntsej muag nqaij yog ua hauj lwm synchronously. Yog hais tias koj pom ntawm ib tug tsis sib haum, nws yog ib tug ntshiab kos npe rau tias koj dag. Lub xam phaj yog ua kom qhia tau ib tug xav hais tias tsis tshua zoo.
- Localization nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo rau cov lus. Yog hais tias tus cwj pwm txawv txaus tsuas yog tej nqe lus, ces koj hais tias, tsis muaj deceiving. Yog hais tias lawv yog lig, nws yuav yog qhov uas "fake". Hais lus, kab lus, nws picks ib feem ntawm ib tug thib ob txoj cai ntawm lub ntsej muag qhia tau hais tias nws insincerity. Qhov tseeb yog manifested nyob rau hauv zoo meej sib raug zoo thiab simultaneity ntawm kev hais lus thiab cwj pwm txawv. "Suab gestures" hu ua no phenomenon ntawm Lavxias teb sab ua yeeb yam thiab zaj duab xis director Sergey Eyzenshteyn.
- Sab nqaij daim tawv tus yam ntxwv. Yog hais tias cov kev qhia uas muaj ib tug xav ntev txog 5 vib nas this, uas txhais tau tias koj yog dag. Yog hais tias nws tsis hloov rau 10 vib nas this - koj raws nraim dag. Sincere kev xav ntawm nws lub ntsej muag hloov sai npaum li cas thiab ntau zaus. Tsuav txhob yog cov sib sib zog nqus kev nyuaj siab, mob chim siab thiab txoj ecstasy. Lwm yam muaj tseeb txoj kev xav yog feem ntau heev luv luv-nyob. Lawv kav xwb ib ob peb lub vib nas this. Long-term ua qauv qhia ntawm ib tug tig tau, feem ntau yuav, yog ib tug daim npog qhov ncauj qab uas hides qhov lawv yeej muaj tseeb txoj kev xav.
Qhia cov lies los tsom kwm cov kev qhia no zoo heev. Nws muaj peev xwm yuav kawm, tsis muaj kev tshwj xeeb kev rau siab.
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Dag kev tshawb xav hais tias lub co nyob rau hauv tag nrho lub cev los yog nws cov neeg qhov chaw (ob txhais tes thiab hauv caug) qhia tau hais tias lub insincerity ntawm lub interlocutor. Yog hais tias nyob rau tib lub sij hawm nws cia siab rau ib yam kev kawm, las voos los yog mosque rau ntawm qhov chaw, raws li nws yog yam xyuam xim tau nyaj nws nyob rau hauv ib cov lus dag. Yog hais tias thaum lub sij hawm ib tug kev sib tham ib tug neeg tso, ces lies yog cuab kev pom ntawm nws lub fidgeting nyob rau hauv nws lub rooj zaum, ib tug kev hloov nyob rau hauv hwj tau lub cev, txoj hauj lwm ntawm ob txhais ceg. Cov poj niam nrog rau cov mos yog yooj yim npaum li cov txiv neej. Qhia cov lies ntawm cov lus qhia nyob rau fairer nrog txiv neej pw - ib tug yooj yim txheej txheem. Xyuam xim rau yam uas nws tau ua thaum lub sij hawm qhov kev sib tham. Scroll los ntawm lub nplhaib nyob rau hauv nws cov ntiv tes, tej yeeb yam nrog cov plaub hau thiab ua-up, txawm li cov ntaub ntawv kho - lub feem ntau pom tseeb tej yam uas nws tau qhia qhov tseeb. Thiab txawm tias ib tug ceev plia nyob rau dial ntawm tus saib los yog mobile xov tooj screen yuav qhia tau tias ib tug neeg yog dag, nws yog heev frustrating hais tias ib tug dag, thiab nws xav kom sai li sai tau coj kev sib tham mus rau qhov kawg.
Thaum lub "rub mus rau sab laug"
Qhov no tog - ib tug ntau tseeb thiab yeej yuav tsis cia koj tsis, Yog hais tias koj nyob nraum sim rau twv: muaj tseeb los yog cuav suab los ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm koj interlocutor. Lub sab laug ib feem ntawm lub ntsej muag, caj npab los yog txhais ceg muab tawm tiag tiag txoj kev xav thiab cwj pwm txawv. Yog hais tias thaum lub sij hawm sib tham nrog koj tias nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas nrog koj sab laug tes, nws cia li hangs nyob rau hauv cov huab cua, cia li nkaum kiag lub hnab ris thiab dab tshos, Iwj teeb meem kiv ib ntxees nkaus - nws yog ib tug kos npe rau tias koj tsis qhia qhov tseeb. Tsis tas li ntawd muab nws tus tswv thiab sab laug txhais ceg. Thaum lub sij hawm lub blatant lus dag nws tseg bent ntawm lub hauv caug los yog thim ib daim duab rau hauv av.
Yog vim li cas rau sab laug? Qhov no yog hais tias lub paj hlwb zoo dua tswj rau sab xis ntawm lub cev. Peb involuntarily them xim rau nws, kiag li poob pom ntawm uas nyob rau ntawm lub sij hawm no ua rau cov sab laug. Thiab nws tau "chatter" peb secrets thiab muab tseeb mus ob peb vas thiab lub xeev ntawm lub siab.
Qhov no hais tias tib neeg kev ua yog lub luag hauj lwm rau qhov sib txawv hemispheres ntawm lub paj hlwb. Yog li ntawd, txoj cai ib feem ntawm nws muab qhib siab rau tus cwj pwm txawv, lub tswv yim, fantasy thiab creativity. Thiab rau sab laug ntawm lwm yam uas hais lus, txawj ntse, analytical xav. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, tswj crosses. Yog li ntawd, lub sab xis ntawm lub ntsej muag thiab lub cev ntau tswj, sab laug yuav tau looj hlias evert peb puab "Kuv".
Nco ntsoov hais tias cov tes, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau sab laug - koj loj tshaj tus yeeb ncuab. Tsis muaj lwm yam yog ib feem ntawm lub cev yog tsis muaj peev xwm li ntawd, kom meej meej rau txim rau peb ntawm kev dag. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj xav mus nkaum los ntawm lwm tus lawv tej kev kawm thiab tiag txoj kev xav, nws yog zoo dua nyob rau hauv ua ntej tsij nws nyob rau hauv koj lub hnab tshos, nyem mus rau hauv ib tug fist thiab tsis ua rau nws taw. Nyob rau hauv no txoj kev, tej zaum koj yuav nkaum qhov deception, yog tias koj tus cwj pwm thiab lub ntsej muag kab zauv yuav tsis muab qhov tseeb tig tau.
Teeb nyob rau hauv kev sib tham
Tab sis thaum nws tsiv mus deb, nws hais lus ntawm nws unwillingness mloog koj, rau empathize thiab qhia nws mus ob peb vas. Yog hais tias koj tus nrog sib ntaus yog zaum thiab yog nqus ntawm lub daim ntawv paj thiab cov qauv, nws yog boring, tab sis nws yog sim mus nkaum nws. Discontent thiab txawm chim siab qhia nws allotted ntawm koj ob lub qhov muag los saib askance. Txawm hais tias koj muaj ib tug ntxim hlub luag, tab sis nws ob txhais tes yog hla nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, thiab lub cev yog noj rau pem hauv ntej, qhov no txhais tau tias ib tug ua tiav negation ntawm koj raws li ib tug neeg. Entwined ob txhais ceg qhia txiv neej lub npaj txhij los sib tw nrog koj nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov cheeb tsam ntawm kev lub neej.
Ob txhais tes yuav tau qhia rau koj txog qhov tseeb intentions. Yog hais tias lub tsa ntiv tes xoo mus - qhov no pom zoo. Yog hais tias cov me ntiv tes - tsis kam muab. Sijhawm twg thiab mistrust qhia zoo txuas txhuam. Tsis meej thiab nervousness muab hla cov ntiv tes, lub loj yog nyob rau hauv tsab ntawv tsa suab, muab tshuaj ntxuav thiab rub txhua lwm yam. Tus txheem hwj tau lub cev, uas qhia tau hais tias lub superiority - nws txhais tes muaj qab nws rov qab. Thaum zoo li no lub puab tsaig upturned upwards.
Aggression luag yuav muab tau yooj yim xam raws li nws ua tsis taus pa. Yog hais tias nws tsis ruaj tsis khov, luv luv ua pa, nws qhov ntswg flaring, nws txhais tau tias nws yog nyob rau hauv brink. Thiab yog hais tias koj tsis tso tseg, nws puas yuav tau ntxias ib tug teeb meem. Hais txog kev ua siab phem feeb qhia "rab liag" saib, mluas hauv pliaj, drooping fab ntawm ob daim di ncauj thiab lub tswv yim ntawm lub pob muag. Qhia cov lies ntawm cov lus tshwm sim, xws li tus cwj pwm ntawm ib tug txiv neej los pab koj to taub nws yeej muaj tseeb intentions, kev xav thiab mus ob peb vas.
Lies thiab moj yam
Tsis ntev los no, zaum tau txawm fashioned ib tug ntaus ntawv uas yuav paub ntawm ib tug deb ntawm mus ob peb vas khoom xwb los ntawm nws tus moj yam. Nrog kev pab los ntawm lawv yuav tsum tau tsis tsuas mus rau txim cov neeg ntawm kev dag, tab sis kuj yuav tshawb nrhiav qhov kab mob raws li ib tug kev puas hlwb thiab lub cev xwm. Tus ntaus ntawv yog tau mus ntes xwb 100 micro-taw ib ob. Tom qab cais lawv, nws yog ua tau rau nteg cia ib tug ntshiab thiab muaj tseeb duab ntawm lub sab hauv lub xeev ntawm "kev sim."
Lub hom phiaj ntawm qhov ntsuas - xav tias yuav tau kev nyuaj siab thiab kev nyuaj siab nyob rau hauv tib neeg, coj raws sij hawm txiav txim. Nws yog heev pab nyob rau hauv Psychiatry. Nws yuav ua tau rau kev tshawb nrhiav thiab complex kev puas hlwb, thiab txawm qaug dab peg. Nyob rau hauv nom ua tswv, tus ntaus ntawv yuav tau ua si ib tug loj luag hauj lwm. By txhim kho xws li ib tug ntaus ntawv nyob ze rau qhov official, cov neeg yuav tsum tau to taub nws yeej muaj tseeb intentions thiab cuav ces ntawm nws xwm los.
Lus qhia ntawm dag
Tsom on lub suab ntawm tus neeg hu kuj yuav yooj yim mus rau catch nws nyob rau hauv ib cov lus dag. Feem ntau tsis qhia siab neeg hais lus heev luv luv. Lawv tsis txhob muab nws kim heev cov lus teb rau cov lus nug, kom tsis txhob tsis meej pem nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej, uas hais tias ib tug neeg. Kam qhia kom paub meej, lawv piav cov tsis muaj ntaub ntawv. Ib txhia, on qhov tsis tooj, txhua yam yog piav nyob rau hauv zoo meej. Lawv txom fantasy pib nyob rau hauv xws impenetrable zoov nuj txeeg uas koj tsis nco qab, muaj dab tsi, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, pib zaj dab neeg. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, nws yuav tsum tau lub golden mean: tsis muaj ntev li brevity thiab nthuav dav.
Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, liars xav hais txog cov correctness thiab lub siab dawb paug, yuav tsum tau koj kom paub meej tias lawv tus kheej cov lus. Lawv skillfully juggle nrog xws li kab zauv raws li "Kuv cog lus", "lub siab dawb paug" thiab thiaj on.
Tej zaum ib tug neeg dag yog ntse heev thiab txawm tsis paub - ib tug tiv thaiv cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Nyob rau hauv no txoj kev, nws minimizes koj rebuttal thiab ntxiv nws raug. Lus Txhais lus dag nyob rau hauv ib lub suab - ib tug neeg ua hauj lwm, uas yuav lis txhua txhua tej kev cai no neeg. Feem ntau, lub suab trembling tag nrho cov liars. Suab nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no tej zaum yuav yog nws tus kheej-dawb lias mus nkaum qhov tseeb cwj pwm txawv heev thiab pronounced txiv neej li tab sis replays.
Neeg dag yuav cuam tshuam koj nrog ruaj lus nug yog hais tias tus kev sib tham yuav siv sij hawm ib tug undesirable tig rau nws. Nws txawm ncav mus seamlessly txhais lub ntsiab. Nws yuav tsis txhob siv tus kheej tej lus xws li "kuv", "kuv", "kuv". Lawv cov hloov "lawv" los yog "peb." dag txhais lub suab yuav pab los mus laij lub dag, txawm yog hais tias nws yog zoo disguised los ntawm koj cov lus qhia ntawm kev dag ntxias.
Yuav ua li cas neeg cov dej ntshiab dag
- Zab yuav tau mus tham. Hais tias nws tsis to taub nws zaj dab neeg thiab hais kom lawv rov qab qhia dua ib zaug ntxiv. Qhov no ua hauj lwm yog heev yooj yim txawm rau kev dag. Tom qab tag nrho, koj yuav tau raws nraim replicate tag nrho cov lus hais tias nws yuav nco ntsoov nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev dag. Yog hais tias koj thov kom lawv qhia rau zaj dab neeg los xaus rau, ntawm no yog ib tus neeg dag raws nraim tsis meej pem.
- Nug cov lus. Uas yog, cov neeg uas nws tau muab ib tug leej lo lus teb. Piv txwv li, tej zaum koj yuav hais tias, "Hais no taw tes nyob rau hauv kom meej"; "Piav nyob rau hauv ntau yam" - thiab thiaj li nyob. Yog muaj lus nug yuav tsum xub yuav dav, ncauj lus kom ntxaws txog thaum tom qab ntawd. Qhov tseeb tiag mas, qhov tsiv tawm ntawm lub npe thiab tsis nco qab lawm - ces nws yog yooj yim dua hais. Mus rov qab thiab nug ib yam dab tsi txog cov pib ntawm zaj dab neeg. Storyteller yuav tau lim koj lub paj hlwb yuav tsum nco ntsoov ib yam dab tsi ntawm dab tsi nws hais tias ib tug ob peb feeb dhau los, thiab nws yog heev yooj yim.
- Mloog zoo zoo heev. Ua tus neeg muaj kev txhawj xeeb. Tej zaum chim siab, raws li tab sis yog nyob rau hauv tsis ntseeg nyob rau hauv ib yam dab tsi. Zab zoo saib koj qhia cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Tej bewilderment los yog disbelief confuses tag nrho cov maps nws nyob rau hauv koj lub qhov muag. Nws pib tsis, stammer, ntsej mua nce ntshav los yog txawm them nrog hws.
Tsis tau npau taws, yog hais tias ib tug neeg yog dag. Yuav ua li cas thiab yuav ua li cas rau yam koj twb paub lawm. Nco ntsoov hais tias superiority nyob rau sab ntawm qhov tseeb, ib tug dag yuav yeej ib txwm muaj nyob thiab Nations lawv rau txim raws li tsim nyog tso.
Yog hais tias ib tug neeg muaj ib yam dab tsi mus nkaum
Qhia cov lies ntawm cov lus qhia yuav kev soj xyuas ib tug neeg. Nws qhia yuav tsum yoog mus rau dab tsi tau hais tias. Yog hais tias tus neeg yog paub nyob rau hauv kev hlub, thiab nws lub ntsej muag qaub los yog nkees, ces nws tej zaum yog tsis muaj tseeb. Nco ntsoov hais tias tus neeg dag luag lub qhov ncauj xwb.
Zab yog feem ntau shrinks, nws yog nias rau hauv lub rooj zaum, nias rau nws ob txhais tes - nws yog sim noj raws li qhov chaw me me nyob ib ncig ntawm. Nws yog ib txwm ib yam dab tsi mus kov thiab cia li nkaum kiag, feem ntau yog nrog sab laug tes: lub ntsej muag los yog cov khaub ncaws. Tsis txhob koj ob lub qhov muag, tsis txhob saib nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag. Zab sim tig, txo nws hwj koj sib txawv khoom rau ntawm txhais tes, thaum twg ua tau: ib lub hnab, ib tug vase los yog lub rooj zaum. Nws yog nws thiaj li hu ua kev tiv thaiv teeb meem.
Yog muaj lus nug zab teb indistinctly, raws li yog hais tias tus "floats" nyob rau hauv nws cov keeb kwm. Los yog, conversely, tej zaum nws hais ib yam nkaus thiab ncauj lus kom ntxaws. Thiab thaum mam li nco dheev hangs nyob rau hauv cov huab cua mas, nws pom tau tias lub feem ntau tsis xis nyob. Thaum ib tug neeg yog dag, nws tsis meej pem qhov tseeb thiab cov lus sib cav, zaj dab neeg jumps los ntawm qhov chaw mus rau qhov chaw.
Yog hais tias koj yeej paub tseeb tias koj yog kev dag ntxias, cia li hloov qhov kev kawm. Yog hais tias koj tsis ua ib tug yuam kev nyob rau hauv lub suspicions, lub dag kam pib los sib tham txog ib tug tshiab kev kawm ntawm kev sib tham. Nws yuav txawm xyu nrog nyem. Tej zaum nws yuav siv kev lom zem rau luag nws tawm thiab txav mus deb ntawm ib tug tib neeg lo lus teb.
Cov tswv yim yuav pab tau koj kom meej xam lub dag. Cia li nco ntsoov tias lus thob-quav "ntsia ntsoov", hais lus tsis meej, ib tug nruj luag, thiab lwm yam, tej zaum tsis hais ncaj ncaj pov thawj ntawm kev dag, tab sis tsuas yog cov teebmeem ntawm ib qho nyuaj hnub, raug teeb meem, muaj mob los yog qaug zog. Yog li ntawd yuav ceev faj thiab raws li lub hom phiaj raws li sai tau.
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