Cov menyuam yaus nyiam. Yuav ua li cas nws yog

Cov menyuam yaus nyiam. Qhov no zoo nkaus li yog paub txhua leej txhua tus. Cas laus cov niam txiv feem ntau tsis muab ntau npaum li cas tseem ceeb rau cov raug kev txom nyem ntawm nws tus me nyuam. Cwj pwm rau tus me nyuam txoj kev hlub yog tag nrho cov sib txawv. Ib tug neeg nphav, lwm leej lwm tus scoff thiab khaus los ntawm qhov tseeb hais tias tus me nyuam hais thiab pom tau tias. Txawm li cas los, peb yuav tsum, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, mus rau to taub tus me nyuam, vim hais tias nws tej zaum kev txom nyem. Thaum muaj tej lub sij hawm, kev pab los ntawm cov niam txiv cia li tsuas xav tau cov me nyuam yaus.

Npaj txhij txog kev hlub thawj lub sij hawm overtaken tus neeg yog tsis nyob rau hauv lub tsev kawm ntawv, raws li yog feem ntau ntseeg. Feem ntau cov feem ntau, peb poob rau kev hlub rau thawj lub sij hawm raws li thaum ntxov raws li kindergarten. Nws yog lub feem ntau carefree lub sij hawm. Neeg nyiam heev cov tub hluas muab cov ntxhais paj, sim saib xyuas ntawm lawv nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg laus txoj kev. Thaum ib tug me nyuam los txog tsev, nws excitedly qhia yuav ua li cas siv lub hnub nyob rau hauv kindergarten, lawv tau nrog ib tug hluas nkauj, cas mus ua si, thiab hais txog. Watch hlub ib tug me nyuam tub los yog ntxhais yog heev nthuav. Niam thiab dads yuav tsum tau them vim cov xim rau cov dab neeg uas nws tus me nyuam, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv lawv nws txo nws hwj tag nrho nws txoj kev xav. Nws tshwm sim hais tias cov me nyuam kev hlub yog tsis sib nrig sib. Ces tus me nyuam yog muaj muaj zog thiab yeej kev txom nyem. Yog hais tias peb xav txog qhov ntau qhov teeb meem no, tag nrho cov kev paub ntawm tus me nyuam yog muaj zog tshaj li ib tug neeg laus txiv neej nyob rau hauv kev hlub. Cov me nyuam yog txawj, lawv noj ntau dhau npaum li cas rau lub plawv. Nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam me ntsis ntiaj teb no tsis muaj kev dag, ib tug ntau ntawm lub siab dawb paug thiab innocence. Yog hais tias tus kwv koj txoj kev hlub tus me nyuam rejects nws txoj kev xav, koj yuav tsum tau qhia rau koj tus me nyuam hais tias nws yog tsis muaj dab tsi. Sim mus hais rau nws tias tus vaj ntau npaum li cas zoo nkauj hluas nkauj los yog cov tub hluas. Qhia koj tus me nyuam tsis them sai sai rau tus kwv ntawm nws unrequited kev hlub, hais rau nws hais tias nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, ib tug hluas nkauj los yog ib tug me nyuam tub nws tsis ntev them mus rau koj tus me nyuam koj ob lub qhov muag. Muaj ntau cov niam txiv hais tias nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug cov ntaub ntawv, qhia rau koj tus me nyuam yuav pib tau saib xyuas ntawm ib tug neeg lwm tus, ua phooj ywg thiab socialize nrog lwm cov me nyuam. Xws li ib tug txav tsis ntev muab zoo tshwm sim. Los yog lawv nkawv ib tug me nyuam them xim rau nws, los yog tus me nyuam poob rau hauv kev hlub dua ib tug uas reciprocated nws.

Piav los saum no yog txoj kev hlub ntawm cov me nyuam nyob rau ntawm ib thaum ntxov lub hnub nyoog. Txawm li cas los, tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav poob nyob rau hauv thawj lub tsev kawm ntawv, piv txwv li. Cov cwj pwm ntawm cov me nyuam hnub nyoog ntawm xya thiab kaum ib xyoos yog sib txawv heev los ntawm cov me nyuam. Qhov tseeb yog hais tias lawv hlub yog manifested heev txawv. Cov tub hluas nyiam cov hluas nkauj rub braids, laub, thiab tom qab tsev kawm ntawv escorted tsev. Yog hais tias ib tug hluas nkauj, piv txwv li, rejects tus phooj ywg ntawm ib tug me nyuam tub nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog nws, lub tom kawg deploys tiag tiag sib ntaus sib tua tawm tsam nws. Nws xav harms tej zaum nws yuav pib lwj phau ntawv sau thiab lwm yam tsev kawm ntawv cov khoom siv. Hluas nkauj kuj sau nws tus lover ib daim ntawv, vij lawv nyob rau hauv ib phau ntawv, tawm hauv tsis muaj kos npe rau. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, cov ntxhais tseem tabtom nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev uas pab tau cov neeg lagging qab nyob rau hauv cov tub hluas lub tsev kawm ntawv, yog li nqus cov xim rau tus neeg. Yog hais tias koj pom tau tias koj tus me nyuam yuav los ntawm tshaj cov uas tsis yog-reciprocal kev hlub, sim piav qhia rau nws hais tias koj yuav tsum coj tej lwm yam kev ntsuas. Pab tus ntxhais los yog tus tub mus xaiv ib tug me me khoom plig ntawm tus hlub tus neeg. Nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem, tsis txhob muab ntse thiab kev tsis sib haum tswv yim. Taug maj mam muab rau dab tsi tsis hais. Cia li mloog koj tus me nyuam, nws yuav muaj ntau yam yooj yim dua.

Cov feem ntau nyuaj me nyuam kev hlub los nyob rau hauv thaum tiav hluas. Qhov no yog ib lub sij hawm ntawm tus hluas zog tuaj maximalism. Cov tub hluas thiab cov poj niam ua ib tug ntau ntawm uas tsis thaum ua kom phim cov duab ntawm tus nyiam. Qhov no lub sij hawm yuav ib tug niam txiv rau qhov kev xeem no kom koj muaj zog. Zoo, yog hais tias nws tau tuaj, thiab xaiv koj cov xeeb ntxwv tsis nplua koj, koj yuav tsis sib ntaus sib tua nws nrog cov kev xaiv. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas koj yuav ua nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem zoo li no, nws yog coj nws tus me nyuam rau nws, sim mus ua phooj ywg nrog nws nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav kom abreast ntawm txhua yam uas tshwm sim nyob rau hauv nws lub neej. Tsis txhob txwv tsis pub koj tus menyuam mus ntsib nrog koj tus hlub. Tab sis lub saw uas hais kom ua xwb yuav tsum tau ua raws li nyob rau hauv cov kev tshwm sim hais tias koj yeej paub tseeb tias tsis muaj kev phom sij rau koj tus me nyuam.