Yog hais tias koj xa SMS lus, koj siv nws, cov neeg tsis ntseeg hais tias koj

Koj puas xav kom koj tus khub mus ntseeg tau hais tias koj yeej xav kom tau raws li nws los yog nws noj hmo thiab cia li innocently lig? Koj xav kom koj tus muam mus ntseeg tau hais tias koj tsis paub tiag tiag yog dab tsi tau tshwm sim rau nws nyiam ib pab tub rog? Ces, tej zaum, koj yuav tsum tshem tawm xws punctuation marks li taw tes thiab tsis nco qab ntawm koj cov ntawv ua lus.

Ntawv nyeem lus yog tam sim no lub predominant hom kev sib txuas lus rau feem ntau cov neeg nyob rau hauv lub hnub nyoog ntawm 50 xyoo. Raws li ib tug tshiab txoj kev tshawv no luam tawm nyob rau hauv cov phau ntawv journal "Computers nyob rau hauv Human cwj pwm," txoj kev uas koj npaj koj cov ntawv nyeem lus, tsis tsuas muaj feem xyuam rau cov kev nthuav qhia ntawm cov neeg tau kev pab ntawm koj kev txawj ntse, tab sis kuj nyob rau hauv seb nws ntseeg hais tias nws sincere. Nyob rau hauv kev, thaum nws los txog rau lub point.

Ib tug tshiab txoj kev tshawv no los zaum

Nyob rau hauv ib tug me me txoj kev tshawb no, ua los ntawm kev soj ntsuam ntawm Binghamton University, 126 undergraduates tau nyeem ib tug series ntawm cov lus ntawv thiab sau ntawv los ntawm txhais tes, thiab ces ntsuam xyuas lub siab dawb paug rau ib tug scale ntawm 1 mus rau 7. Nws pom hais tias cov lus uas xaus nrog ib lub sij hawm, kwv yees yuav tsawg sincere dua li cov qhov twg nws yog tsis tuaj kawm ntawv. Yuav kom txiav txim no, tus neeg tshawb fawb muab cov neeg koom nyob rau hauv ib qhov teeb meem ntawm tej yam yooj yim sib tham. Txhua xws messaging muaj ib qho kev caw formulated raws li ib lo lus nug, piv txwv li, "Koj puas xav mus rau lub tsos?". Cov lus teb yog lo lus "yog" los "ntawm chav kawm." Nthuav qhov tseeb, thaum lub point yog tsis tau muab handwritten sau ntawv, nws yog dab tsi raws li ib tug cim illiteracy. Tab sis thaum muaj tsis muaj taw tes nyob rau hauv cov ntawv ua lus, kev tshawb koom nyob rau lawv raws li ntau sincere.

Yog vim li cas cov cim txawv dab tsi nyob rau hauv lub SMS-lus thiab sau ntawv los ntawm txhais tes?

Yog li ntawd yog vim li cas peb txawv txhais handwritten sau ntawv thiab cov ntawv nyeem lus? Cov soj ntsuam ntawm qhia hais tias peb xav tau nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm cov cim muaj tsawg tsawg thaum nws los txog rau ntawv cov lus. Cim yog ib tug ntawm cov Pib ntsais koj teeb uas siv los ntawm senders thiab tau txais dab tsi uas kis pragmatic thiab kev ntaub ntawv. Nws yog tsim nyog los noj mus rau hauv tus account lub fact tias cov ntawv nyeem lus yog inherently luv heev, qhov twg txhua txhua lo lus los yog lub cim siv los qhia cov ntsiab lus teb. Yog li, thaum peb xa kev ntaus ntawv tsis muaj cov cim tias, no mas, yuav tsum tau ntau txawj thiab yog li ntawd ntau sincere.

Txawm tias muaj tseeb tias cov ntawv nyeem lus yog ib daim ntawv ntawm kev sau ntawv, nyob rau hauv ntau zaus lawv siv thiab ntaus nqi raws li ib tug hais lus. Ceev cov lus ntawv simulate sib tham. Nyob rau hauv ib tug tiag tiag kev sib tham cov neeg yuav yooj yim kis tus social thiab kev xav ntaub ntawv ob lub qhov muag, lub ntsej muag kab zauv, suab nrov ntawm lub suab, pauses, thiab hais txog. Nws yog pom tseeb tias thaum lub sij hawm ib tug ntawv nyeem sib tham, cov mechanisms yuav siv tsis tau, yog li cov neeg tso siab rau yam uas lawv muaj - cov cim, emoticons thiab txhob txwm misspellings uas ntsi xws li lub suab ntawm kev hais lus.

Yuav ua li cas peb siv taw tes

Tus taw tes yog ib tug ntawm cov thawj tsim cov cim, nws yog kiag li nruab nrab, thiab tau txais kev pab rau kos tus cim rau zaum kawg so. Txawm li cas los, thaum lub sij hawm, ua ke nrog txoj kev loj hlob ntawm peb cov kev sib txuas lus, qhov no simplicity tau muab txoj kev mus rau ib tug ntau hloov maj mam mus kom ze. Nyob rau hauv 2013, lub xeem twb los xij, raws li uas taw tes nyob rau hauv cov ntawv ua lus yog dab tsi raws li ib tug manifestation ntawm aggression. Yog li ntawd nws tam sim no yuav mus txog tus neeg los ntawm surprise, yog hais tias nws yuav nyob rau hauv nruab nrab ntawm ib tug kev text sib tham. Thiab kuj ceeb tias, nws ua rau yus tsis ntseeg tau pib. Tag nrho cov no kuj piav yog vim li cas cov neeg siv ntau yam thiaj li exclamation tias. Muaj yog ib txwm ib tug uas yuav hais tias cov ntawv nyeem lus yog kis tau voos los sarcasm, kom cov neeg siv cov exclamation ntsiab lus kom paub tseeb tias lawv tau txais nws txoj cai.

Raws li txhais los ntawm lub exclamation tias?

Tam sim no, zaum tseem yuav tau kev zoo xws li cov kev tshawb fawb los mus txiav txim yuav ua li cas exclamation tias muaj kev cuam tshuam tus txhais lus los ntawm cov ntawv nyeem lus. Thaum nws yog ib yam nkaus thiab thaum ntxov mus rau kos tej zaum kawg cov lus xaus, exclamation tias pab kev ntau lub siab dawb paug.

Cov kev hloov nyob rau hauv lus yog ib txwm qeeb heev, thiab nyuaj rau saib lawv. Txawm li cas los, nrog cov emergence ntawm ntau hom ntawm computer-kho hom haum xeeb kev sib txuas lus, xws li ntawv nyeem lus, muaj yog ib tug zoo sij hawm los saib yuav ua li cas cov neeg siv cov lus hloov.

Yuav ua li cas yuav peb cia siab tias nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej?

Raws li technology tseem evolve, nws yog tau hais tias lub pendulum yuav ua viav vias rau lwm txoj kev, thiab peb yuav pib mus rau sau cov lus ntawv, siv cov nyuv los yog lub inscription "tis" es tsis txhob ntawm LOL (los yog tej zaum xwb peb yuav ua li cas autocorrect). Qhov tshaj plaws xwb uas qhia cov kev soj ntsuam, yog yuav tsum tau ceev faj thaum koj xa ib cov e-mail los yog cov lus ntawv nyeem, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog hais tias koj npau taws los yog tag kev cia siab. Cov neeg muaj heev sensitively perceive tag nrho cov subtleties ntawm cov lus, yog li txhua yam peb yuav tsum tau ceev faj li cas peb cov lus thiab nrog cov cim.