Stepson - uas nws yog dab tsi thiab cov ntsiab lus yuav tsum tau them xim rau?

Zaus nyob rau hauv lub neej yog cov sib txawv thiab yeej tsis muaj coj lawv cov me nyuam ib leeg. Yog hais tias koj yav tom ntej tus poj niam los yog tus txiv twb muaj ib tug me nyuam, ces ib tug stepson yuav tsum tau kho tsis pub tsawg favorably tshaj lawv cov me nyuam. Qhov no me txiv leej tub tsim nyog muaj koj ua ib tug rau siab mus ua phooj ywg nrog nws, ua ib feem ntawm nws tsev neeg.

Stepson - uas nws yog, yog tias koj saib nyob rau hauv cov phau ntawv txhais ntsiab lus ntawm lo lus?

Lo lus no muaj ob peb lub ntsiab. Firstly, nws yog ib lub kauj ruam-tus tub ntawm ib qho ntawm cov txij nkawm thiab lwm yam haiv neeg tus tub. Hais tias yog, nws yuav ua tau nws tus kheej tus tub, piv txwv li, ib tug poj niam, tab sis koj muaj tsis haiv neeg rau nws tus txiv, los yog vice versa. Feem ntau tsis yog neeg tub Nws tsis tau txais txoj cai npaum li cas ntawm cov xim, muaj kev nyuaj siab ntawm ib tug cov xwm sib txawv. Cov ntaub ntawv feem ntau tsim txom stepmother stepson, ua nyob rau hauv lub tsev tag nrho cov qias neeg ua hauj lwm. Muaj lwm cov kev xaiv - nws yuav tsum yog li ntawd zoo nkauj, uas ntog nyob rau hauv kev hlub nrog nws stepmother.

Qhov chaw peb tus kheej lub aim to taub stepson - uas yog muaj nyob rau hauv dictionaries thiab lwm lub ntsiab lus ntawm cov lo lus, tab sis peb yuav tsis xav txog. Yog li ntawd nws hu ua loj hlob tawm ntawm nplooj axils sab tua ntawm cov nroj tsuag. Tab sis hais tias yog ib lub npe rau ib tsab xov xwm.

Stepson thiab txiv tshiab. Heev me teeb meem

Feem ntau cov feem ntau, tus me nyuam pom zoo rau nws tus txiv tshiab, "lub tshiab Pope." Qhov no tshwm sim nyob rau hauv 90% ntawm cov neeg. Qhov no cov me nyuam cov tshuaj tiv thaiv yog ntau tshaj li to taub thiab yog kiag li ib txwm - kuv niam yeej ib txwm, thiab lub neej tshiab los yog sim tsav ib lub npoo nruab nrab ntawm nws thiab nws niam, coj nws txoj kev hlub, saib xyuas thiab dawb lub sij hawm ... Ntawm cov hoob kawm, tus me nyuam yuav tsis zoo siab.

Yuav ua li cas kom coj nyob rau hauv ib tug neeg laus, cov menyuam ntawd twb yog tau txais cov neeg tshiab nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg?

Dhau lub siab lub ntsws teb - nws yog ok

Dhau tsausmuag thiab kev xav tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm tus me nyuam - qhov no yog zoo kawg nkaus li qub, thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai ntawm nws. Txij li thaum koj yuav tsim kom muaj ib tug kev sib raug zoo nrog tus me nyuam rau qee lub sij hawm nrog rau txoj kev zoo niam tus cwj pwm thiab nws beloved. Worrying li nram no demure. Nws feem ntau tshwm sim hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsis ua rau ib tug xwm txheej no tawm ntawm lub fact tias nws yog tam sim no ib tug stepson uas tej zaum nws yuav ua tau. Nws calmly teb mus rau lub rov tshwm sim ntawm lub neej tshiab, nws tsis qhia tej yam tshwm sim ntawm discontent, tab sis ... muaj peev xwm pib mus saib npau suav phem, qw thiab quaj nyob rau hauv ib tug npau suav. Nrog rau cov me nyuam tias nws yog zoo dua los tham nyob rau hauv ua ntej, tsis txhob muab tso rau lawv ua ntej lub fact. Nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia hais tias kuv niam tseem hlub nws, tsis yog nrhiav rau ib tug hloov rau nws, yuav tsis muab ua txhaum, yog hais tias muaj yog ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Yog hais tias koj tsis nqig lub me nyuam tawm hauv lub tsev, ib tug zoo tawm los yuav rov hais dua mus rau ib tug me nyuam kev puas siab ntsws.

Qhov zoo tshaj plaws kev xaiv

Nws zaum kuj tshwm sim hais tias tus me nyuam, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, heev zoo teb mus rau lub tsos ntawm nws tus txiv tshiab. Lawv ua tsaug xav kev zoo siab niam coj zoo li cov neeg laus thiab critically soj ntsuam tus neeg sib tw nyob rau hauv nws cov tshiab tus txiv. Lawv coj thawj kauj ruam ntawm kev phooj ywg nrog rau cov txiv tshiab. Rau cov txheej xwm tsim raws li tus zoo tagnrho cov scenario, peb yuav tsum coj daim ntawv ntawm ib tug ob peb yam yooj yim cov kev cai. Nyob rau lawv yuav tsum tau tham hauv qab no.

Yuav ua li cas coj niam thiab txiv tshiab?

1. Hlub niam muaj siv nws los ua ib tug phooj ywg ntawm nws tus me nyuam. Ib tug zoo tshuaj yuav los kawm txog cov ntau yam ntawm me nyuam yaus lub paj, to taub hais tias nws yog tus pog hais txog dab tsi nws xav, hais tias yog ntshai. Yog li ntawd nws yuav yooj yim dua mus rau nrog nyob rau hauv lub sib tham, nthuav tus me nyuam, los tsim kev sib cuag nrog nws.
2. Rau tsis muaj dab tsi yog tsis yooj yim sua kom sai li sai tau qhia rau tus me txiv neej hais txog nws intentions (piv txwv li, "Kuv lub npe yog txiv ntxawm Nick, kuv yog koj txiv tshiab, koj yog kuv stepson uas perceive nws tsis zoo, tsis ncaj ncees lawm"). Peb yuav tsum pib nrog lub siab nyiam thiab tej teeb meem ntawm tus me nyuam. Yog hais tias ces, thaum cov kev sib cuag yog tsim los pab, tus txiv neej thov kev pab yuav tsum tau lub txiv tshiab xav qhia rau koj tus me nyuam txog koj lub hom phiaj, koj muaj peev xwm sim ua, tab sis koj yuav tsum tau ceev faj thiab xaiv koj cov lus kom zoo zoo. Nws yuav tsum tau hais txog tias cov txiv tshiab tsis yog yuav mus hais tias yuav tsum tau tus me nyuam txiv thiab qhov chaw yog zoo paub hais tias cov pope nws yuav ua tau tsuas yog ib tug.
3. Rau yav tom ntej yuav muab tus me nyuam tshiab niam txiv hobby. Nws feem ntau tshwm sim hais tias lub stepchildren mus txog hnub tim nrog cov zoo tshaj plaws cwj pwm txawv nco txog lawv txiv tshiab, cov uas lawv yog thaum lub sij hawm thaum yau mus nuv ntses, peb kho lub tsheb nyob rau hauv lub chav nres tsheb. Niam, tsis muaj teeb meem yuav ua li cas zoo meej thiab hlub nws tej zaum yuav, yuav tsis qhib nws tus tub tag nrho cov secrets ntawm cov txiv neej ntiaj teb no.
4. Nws yog tsis tsim nyog rau placate tus tub, muab nws ib tug qho khoom ua si. Thiab nws yog kiag li tsis yooj yim sua rau lossi nws nco qab yuav ua li cas txias tshuab muab nws ib tug phooj ywg ntawm nws niam, txawm lub fact tias nws - nws stepson. Leej twg yog hais kom ua li cas? Yog tus me nyuam nug no cov khoom ua si?
5. Ib qho zoo heev kev xaiv ntawm kev tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo yog thaum ib tug niam, txiv tshiab thiab tus me nyuam mus rau qhov chaw ua ke - cov circus, xinesmas, cov me nyuam ua si. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas tus me nyuam txuam cov emergence txiv tshiab thiab nyob twj ywm nrog nws nrog zoo cwj pwm txawv.
6. Hnub thiab txiv tshiab ntawm tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv kom meej meej lub sij hawm. Nws yuav sai sai no muaj ob zoo tau. Firstly, ua li cas nws yuav siv sij hawm qhov chaw nyob rau hauv ib tug kom meej meej tseg lub sij hawm, sai sai tig mus rau ib tug ritual thiab ua lub cai. Ob txhais, thaum nws tiav niam txiv meej npaum li cas tus me nyuam perceives cov contacts - seb nws yog txhawb los ntawm nws tus txiv tshiab ua ntej lub rooj sib tham los yog, nyob rau hauv tsis tooj, nws yuav muaj kev nyuaj siab thiab tu siab.

Yuav ua li cas coj zoo li Niam?

1. Tsis muaj txoj kev koj yuav tsis yuam kom cov menyuam hu mus rau nws niam xaiv pope. Qhov no yog rau kuv niam, nws hlub ib tug txiv neej, nws yog ib tug me nyuam - ib tug txawv teb chaws thiab txawv teb chaws tus txiv ntxawm.
2. Tshiab khub, yuav tsum tsis txhob ua lub ntsiab teeb meem nyob rau hauv kev kawm ntawv stepson. Txwv tsis pub, tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav zoo li ntawd kuv niam tau tsiv mus rau lub "alien" txhais tes, tab sis muaj tsis muaj teb tsuas yog tsis zoo, nws yuav tsis ua rau.
3. Koj muaj peev xwm tsis hais lus mob ntawm tus me nyuam tub leej txiv. Peb yuav tsum tsis txhob muab los piv rau lub "tam sim no" thiab "tshiab" dads. Tej yam tsis zoo hais tiv thaiv cov roj ntsha leej txiv yuav ua tej yam tsis zoo sab ntawm tus me nyuam. Thaum lub sij hawm, nws to taub hais tias cov pope - yog tsis ib txwm tus txiv neej uas tau muab lub neej. Qhov no yog tus txiv neej uas yog ib txwm muaj - nws yuav pab, tiv thaiv, uas muaj peev xwm nug rau tswv yim.

Nyob rau hauv ib tug kev sib raug zoo "stepson thiab stepmother" yuav tsum tau thov cov cai, tab sis lub stepmother yuav siv sij hawm qhov chaw ntawm nws tus txiv tshiab, thiab tus me nyuam tus txiv - niam qhov chaw. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm lub observance ntawm cov kev cai yooj yim kom muaj nyiaj pab ntau tshaj tact, zoo kev sib raug zoo yuav zoo siab nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg.