Yuav ua li cas mus hais lus kom zoo: tswv yim

Peb tag nrho cov siv zog los mus ua kom lwm tus neeg ib tug zoo tswv yim, tab sis txhua leej txhua tus paub hais tias qhov kev soj ntsuam ntawm ib tug neeg yog tsim los ntawm cov plaub Cheebtsam? Cov no muaj xws li, kev nqis tes ua, thiab, nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, peb hais lus. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, dab tsi tseem ceeb tsis yog tsuas yog peb hais li cas, tiam sis kuj yuav ua li cas peb ua li nws.

Kawm hais lus kom zoo

Muaj tseeb koj paub tsawg kawg yog ib tug neeg uas muaj teeb meem sib txuas lus. Qhov tseeb hais tias koj yuav tsum paub xwb tsis ua li cas mus hais lus confidently, tab sis kuj competently qhia lawv taw tes ntawm view.

Wb sim los tham txog lub ntsiab ntsiab lus nyob rau hauv peb kev hais lus, vim hais tias tsis muaj ib tug yog qhia yuav ua li cas mus hais lus, thiab yog li ntawd, ib co ntawm cov tswv yim pom zoo yuav pab tau heev.

Ua ntej, peb yuav tsum xyuam xim rau cov ntsiab lus. Koj yuav tsum mus nyeem ntxiv, vim hais tias tej zaum peb cia li tsis muaj lus qhia, los formulate lawv views. Peb hais lus yuav ua tau tus nplaig-khi, nws muaj peev xwm ua tau raws li qhov thiaj li hu ua lo lus-nroj thiab lwm yam raug.

Tam sim no nws yog tsim nyog hmoog rau kev nyuaj siab uas koj ua nyob rau hauv lus. Yuav kom nws yog competent, nws yog tsim nyog los paub yuav ua li cas kom raug hais cov lus. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, cov phau ntawv txhais yuav pab tau tseeb hais, kawm cov feem ntau cov lus, tab sis yog hais tias koj nyob rau hauv raws li nrog rau feem ntau zoo dua hloov nws nrog ib tug yaj, los yog txawm nco.

Heev feem ntau nyob rau hauv peb hais lus peb nyiam siv lub ntxiv cov lus uas tsis muaj ib tug tshwj xeeb lub ntsiab lus. Piv txwv li: "Nyob rau hauv Feem ntau, kuv kos npe rau cov ntaub ntawv thiab txhua yam uas," "Qhov tshij, Kuv muab tso rau nws tawm muaj rau, yam ib pawg ntawm cov ntaub ntawv." Tsuas yog ob lub lim piam ntawm kev cob qhia, thiab koj hais lus yuav muaj ntau yam "nqus tsev vacuum" thiab tau ib tug txawj kev zoo nkauj.

Xav txog yuav ua li cas mus hais lus kom zoo, peb yuav tsum tsis txhob hnov qab txog lub suab nrov, uas muaj feem xyuam rau lub zuag qhia tag nrho cov tswv yim txog tej yam tau hais tias. Lub tso zis yog heev yooj yim: koj yuav sau koj lub suab nyob rau hauv daim kab xev thiab ces tsom xam nws, yuav tsum tau txuas rau txoj kev no, comrades, uas qhia li cas lawv tsis nyiam nyob rau hauv koj sib tham.

Tej zaum peb siv nyob rau hauv peb hais lus nyuaj heev kom to taub cov lus ntawm lwm tus neeg. Nco ntsoov lub tsev kawm ntawv qib xyoo, thaum koj yeej yuav tsis to taub tus tham ntawm cov xibfwb, thiab tsis tau nws ciali rau nws hais tias nws hais lus heev pheej yig. Qhov tseeb yog tias tag nrho cov peb yuav hais nyob rau hauv cov lus yooj yim, to taub rau txhua leej txhua tus los ntawm kev xaiv lo lus. Sim ua kom koj hais lus tsis muaj cov lus uas yog to taub tsis tau rau koj tus phooj ywg, thiab ces txhua yam yuav poob rau hauv qhov chaw.

Yog hais tias koj xav paub yuav ua li cas nrog lawv tham, koj yuav tsum kiag tsis nco qab txog txoj kev siv cov lus phem, ua dog ua dig thiab jargon. Undoubtedly, koj tus phooj ywg yuav nkag siab txig yog koj hais rau nws tias: "Nws yog ntsuj dav hlau tog, li ntawd, npaum li cas booze yog ib tug Tsab ntawv tsa suab nyob rau hauv pem teb las voos!". Tab sis nws tsis yog tsim nyog nyob rau hauv tib tus ntsuj plig mus qhia rau ib tug neeg laus hais txog yuav ua li cas yog koj hnub Sunday thaum yav tsaus ntuj. Koj yuav tsum lim koj hais lus thiab xav txog li koj hais thiab rau leej twg.

Tsis ntev los no, nrov heev ntawm cov neeg uas txawj hais lus ib tug txawv teb chaws lus, nws yog tus siv ntawm nws kev hais lus, lub teb chaws lo lus. Nws hom lus rau dab tsi zoo yuav tsis ua, nws tsis yog tsuas yog dab tuag, tab sis nws tsis yog tseeb rau lwm tus neeg, txawm yog hais tias lawv paub cov lus uas koj noj cov lus.

Tej zaum koj yog ib tug me ntsis tag, tab sis yuav tsum paub yuav ua li cas nrog lawv tham, koj yuav tsum paub yuav ua li cas los mloog. Nws yog tsis zoo li hais tias koj yuav ua ib tug zoo conversationalist, Yog hais tias koj lossi cuam tshuam koj tus nrog sib ntaus thiab tsis txhob muab nws qhia nws nws taw tes rau ntawm view.

Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, nws tsis tau ib yam nkaus thiab nquag nug cov lus nug, txwv tsis pub koj sib tham yuav tsis nyiam tham, tab sis nyob rau ib tug tiag tiag interrogation.

Nws yog ib nqi yuav tsum nco ntsoov lub golden cai ntawm zoo conversationalist: Tsis txhob cuam tshuam. Muaj peev xwm muab ib lub suab heev npaum li cas menyuam. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, thaum nws yog koj tig mus hais lus, koj tsis xav tau ib tug "foaming ntawm lub qhov ncauj" los ua pov thawj nws innocence. Cov kev sib tham yuav tsum tsis txhob zoo li ib tug nom tswv sib cav tswv yim, qhov twg txhua leej txhua tus xav los mus tiv thaiv nws pom thiab pov thawj lawv ua. Koj yuav tsum tau tig rau koj sib tham nyob rau hauv ib tug qab ntxiag xws li kev sib tham.