Me nyuam tseem yau txoj kev loj hlob thiab cov me nyuam tom qab ib xyoos

Tom qab tus me nyuam yug los, nws pib ib qho incredibly txawj loj hlob thiab kev loj hlob. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog sai sai no tshwm sim rau ib lub xyoo. Tus me nyuam pib mus kawm thaum xub thawj mummy, thiab ces tag nrho cov neeg laus. Nws tsis tau cia li hnov lub suab, tab sis kuj kawm tau los teb rau lawv, ntawm lub hauv paus.

Heev zoo kev cob cog nrog txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam tom qab yug tus me nyuam nrog rau lub siab ntsws kheej. "Complex rooj txhawb siab" Thawj, muaj yog ib qho tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv lub neej ntawm tus me nyuam. Tom qab ntawd nws pib muaj kev xyiv fab ntawm ib zaug mus ntsib ib tug ib txwm neeg. Nws txhais tes thiab ob txhais ceg yog tsiv nquag, muab tej kev xav. Tu siab los ib yam nkaus thiab mam li nco dheev. Thaum tus me nyuam yuav tu siab thaum nws niam yoojyim. Los ze zog mus 9 lub hlis tus me nyuam no twb muaj peev xwm mus genuinely xav tsis thoob.

Nrog hais txog lub cev muaj zog ua si li ib xyoos, thawj tus me nyuam kawm rau yob lawm. Ces maj mam nws tso nyob ib leeg thiab crawls. Ntxiv - ntau, kev kawm mus kev.

Kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug me nyuam tom qab ib xyoos - nws yog ib tug active assimilation ntawm kev hais lus. Thiab nws tshwm sim sai sai heev thiab nraaj. Tus me nyuam hais lus zoo, zoo tib yam thiab paub rau peb hais lus, nws yog tsim nyog los lossi sib txuas lus rau cov neeg laus. Txwv tsis pub, yuav muaj ib tug tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv ncua sij hawm hais lus txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam.

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog, ib tug me nyuam yog heev raug rau cov lus. Nws yog kev koom ntxiv rau nws passive thiab active cov ntsiab lus. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg laus yuav tsum tau ceev faj heev nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus. Nyob rau tib lub sij hawm, muaj ib tug dlej cov lo lus, tus me nyuam pib mus tsim ib tug heev yooj yim ua ke, uas nrog lub hnub nyoog ua nyuab dua.

Active txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam tom qab lub xyoo no yog inextricably txuas rau cov kev kawm ua si. Nrog rau qhov no kas paub lub ntiaj teb no, recruited tej kev txawj ntse. Qhov no tshwm sim los ntawm txoj kev imitative kev txiav txim. Ob tug neeg laus thiab tus me nyuam haus los ntawm ib lub khob, tuav ib diav, khawm, khawb duav xuab zeb. Nws yuav tsum qhia tus me nyuam mus rau lub loj tshaj tus naj npawb ntawm tsim nyog manipulations uas yuav pab tau nws tom qab nyob rau hauv lub neej.

Lub psyche ntawm lub sij hawm no lub feem ntau malleable. Yog li ntawd, txoj kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug me nyuam tom qab ib xyoos yog incredibly ceev ceev. Qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog kev xav. Lub cev tsis zag kuj tsim. Tsis yog tsis muaj yog vim li cas thaum lub sij hawm tus me nyuam yog loj hlob "los ntawm leaps thiab ciam teb."

Nyob rau hauv qhov kev ua si xyoo-laus tus me nyuam paub tag nrho cov uas nyob ib ncig nws. Cov kev ua no yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev, tab sis peb yuav tsum tau qhia nws tus me nyuam. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, nws yog cov hauj lwm ntawm cov neeg laus. Tus me nyuam nws tus kheej yuav tsis to taub ua li cas nrog lub tshuab los yog plush me nyuam roj hmab. Nyob rau hauv no muaj hnub nyoog yuav tsum muaj cai nyob rau hauv lawv cov offspring yog heev yooj yim kev txiav txim nrog cov khoom ua si. Sai li sai tau raws li txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam tom qab 2 xyoo implies lub rov tshwm sim ntawm tus zaj dab neeg ntawm qhov kev ua si. Ces cov me nyuam ua si nyob rau hauv lub muag khoom, kws kho mob, policeman los yog cia li nyob rau hauv "Leej niam thiab cov Ntxhais".

Tom qab ib xyoos muaj ib tug active kev loj hlob ntawm lub cim xeeb. Chiv, nws yog inextricably txuas nrog rau qhov no muaj nuj nqi, raws li xaav. Cia li ib tug me nyuam yog yooj yim yuav tsum nco ntsoov lub npe ntawm cov kev kawm, yog hais tias nws pom nws. Tsis tas li ntawd, cov neeg yuav tsum paub rau nws, yog hais tias nws yog nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm nws.

Thaum muaj hnub nyoog, tus me nyuam yuav tsis npau suav. Nws lub tswv yim tseem tsis tau tsim. Li no tus tsis muaj peev xwm qhia rau ib tug dag. Nws tsuas muaj peev xwm tsis tuaj nrog nws tseeb. Tsuas yog nyob rau hauv peb lub xyoos nws yuav ua tau.

Kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug me nyuam tom qab ib xyoos ntawm kev xav heev luj lug dawb lias tag nrho cov hom kev tshua. Pom ib tug zoo nkauj qho khoom ua si hais tias nws xav tau nws. Qhov no yog nrog los ntawm nrov qw. Ntxias kom zoo siab koj tus me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob swearing, thiab yooj yim switching xim, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog hais tias feem ntau ua rau nws yooj yim heev. Cov me nyuam yaus ces tsis nco qab txog nws txoj kev xav.

Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab txog tus me nyuam txoj kev sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg. Nyob rau ntawm ib xyoo, nws yog cia li raug tsim. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, muaj peev xwm tsis tau tsis muaj sib ntaus sib tua dua ib qho khoom ua si. Tseeb, nyob rau hauv cov lub sij hawm ntawm ib tug me nyuam yog qia dub thiab twb tsis muaj sij hawm los mus coj mus rau hauv tus account lub xav li cas ntawm lwm tus neeg. Nrhiav tib lub hnub nyoog li sai tau thiab nyob rau hauv lub vaj. Txawm li cas los, nws yuav zoo dua yog hais tias tus me nyuam yuav mus rau hauv thaum ntxov loj hlob ntawm cov pab pawg neeg los yog kindergarten. Nyob rau hauv kev, nyob rau hauv tej lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm preschool kawm ntawv.