Kindly - dab tsi yog qhov no? "Losntawm", "ntxim hlub" thiab courtesy

Ntawm no thiab muaj koj yuav hnov: "Nws yog li ntawd zoo rau kuv, coj txawv txawv heev, kuv twb hnov ntau yam txog nws phem." Ib tug neeg uas tsis paub, thiab zoo - nws yog, nug koj tus kheej: "Tus lwm yog ib tug poj niam mil los yog tsis paub?". Niaj hnub no, peb yuav tsum to taub lub ntsiab lus ntawm lo lus "nyob zoo" thiab "siab zoo" vim hais tias ib tug tsis muaj sib yuav tsis muab suav hais tias.

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Cia li hais lo lus zoo. Tus nqi ntawm adverbs thiab adjectives nyob rau hauv ntau. Yog li ntawd, peb ua ntej xav txog qhov thib ob, ces tus thawj thiab ces tsiv mus rau ib tug ntau dav notion ntawm civility nyob rau hauv tus. Yog li, qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lub chaw "nyob zoo":

• Yog li ntawd nws siv yuav tsum tau hu ua "lub beloved." Tam sim no nws yuav zoo li ironic thiab me ntsis funny.
• Polite, courteous, paub cai. Mus tshab no tus nqi yuav tsum tau ib tug me ntsis ntau tshaj ib kab lus, thiaj li cia tus tham txog nws nyias, thaum peb xav txog courtesy.
• Nyob zoo, Nyob zoo. Txawm tias muaj tseeb hais tias peb lub nqi nyob rau hauv ntau thiab zoo ib yam li cov thawj, nws tsis yog yuav tsum tau obsolete thiab nws yog thov.
• Unceremonious txaus siab mus rau lwm tus neeg. Piv txwv li: "Koj paub dab tsi, kuv tus hlub, koj yog tsis tau kuv lub hlwb hmoov! Kuv pom nrog rau kuv tus kheej ob lub qhov muag, yuav ua li cas ua koj muab tso rau lub luam yeeb cov ntaub ntawv nyob rau hauv nws lub hnab tshos! ". Nws yog tsis yooj yim to taub hais tias nws yog yuav luag ib tug hais lus dev.

Nyob rau hauv lub suab hais lus, "zoo" yuav cia li muaj nuj nqis. Thiab thaum nws los txog rau nrug muaj feem luj ib tug neeg ua, tus nqi - "ntxim hlub", "paub cai" - ib tug zoo kev ntsuam xyuas.

Piv txwv li:

- Peb tug me nyuam tub hnub no rau thawj lub sij hawm tsom kom loj hlob thiab muab txoj kev mus rau nws pog nyob rau hauv pej xeem thauj.

- Oh! Hais tias yog heev zoo ntawm nws. Nws yog ci ntsa iab!

Nyob rau hauv no qhov teeb meem no, tus "courtesy" yog tsiv los ze zog nyob rau hauv lub ntsiab lus rau "ntxim hlub", noj mus rau hauv tus account lub ntsiab lus teb ntawm qhov teeb meem no: lub pog, tus me nyuam, ob tug poj niam, tag nrho cov kov.

Emotional ntau adverbs "ntxim hlub" thiab "siab zoo"

Nyob rau hauv lub yav dhau los seem nws twb hais tias adverbs daig nyob rau hauv lub header yuav siv interchangeably, thiab nws yeej muaj tseeb, tab sis tsis yeej ib txwm. Ntau nyob ntawm cov lus teeb meem. Sib piv.

Ib qhov teeb meem no. Thaum nyob rau hauv-txoj cai ua zoo niam-los yog nws tus poj niam, thiab nws qhia hais tias nws niam, ces yuav tau hnov raws li ib lo lus teb: "Oh, zoo li cas ntawm nws," Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no, lub adverb interchangeable, thiab yog hais tias koj muab tso rau "ntxim hlub", tsis muaj dab tsi yuav hloov.

Lwm qhov teeb meem no. Tus poj niam thiaj hais rau nws tus txiv hais tias ib tug colleague muab nws ib qho chaw nyob rau hauv lub tsheb, uas yog muag lawv lub tsev. Tus txiv teb: "Nws yog heev zoo ntawm nws." Muaj yuav "ntxim hlub" tsis nyuaj tawm ntawm qhib thiab tawm ntawm qhov chaw, vim hais tias cov txiv tsis paub paub ib tug colleague, thiab nws tsis tu, lub tseem ceeb tshaj plaws - yog hais tias tus poj niam tuaj hauv tsev ib tug me ntsis ua ntej lawm. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, yog hais tias tus txij nkawm yog tej yam txawv, ces nws lub taub hau los txog rau thought: "Thiab yog hais tias ib tug colleague tsis xav ntaus rau nws tus poj niam?" Yuav ua li cas hom ntawm txoj kev hlub tshua ntawm no.

Yog li, nws zoo nkaus li, "courtesy" - ib tug nruab nrab lo lus uas yuav qhia kev coj zoo luag hauj lwm thaum tsis muaj dab tsi tshwj xeeb tsis xav mus nrog lawv tham, tab sis nws yog tsim nyog.

Ib txhia ntawm cov txawj nyeem ntawv tej zaum yuav tsis pom zoo nrog rau tej lus cog tseg. Thaum no tus taw tes, txhua tsim nws tus kheej txheej nyiam. Thiab qhov no siv tsis tau tsuas yog rau cov kev sau ntawv ntawm science thiab art, tab sis kuj zoo tib yam haiv neeg hais lus, ntawm chav kawm, yog hais tias tus kawg literate txaus muab nws tus kheej txhais, uas pib nrog cov lus "courtesy - nws yog ..."

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Tus nyeem ntawv yuav tsum tsis txhob txhawj, yuav tsis muaj ib tug treatise rau morality, tab sis nws yog ib tug coj txawv txawv los tham txog ua siab zoo thiab hais tsis muaj dab tsi hais txog qhov ntau general notion ntawm qhov chaw uas nws tshwm sim. Ib tug txiv neej coj li los ntawm ib tug thaum ntxov muaj hnub nyoog li hais tias nws paub paub qhov zoo ntawm qhov phem tus cwj pwm. Thaum nws behaves zoo - nws xav kom, piv txwv li, lo lus "kindly". Qhov no yog - ib daim ntawv ntawm kev pom zoo hais tias tus neeg yog behaving nyob rau hauv raws li pej xeem cov miv nyuas thiab xav tau. Peb kev coj zoo yog tsuas ib qho teeb meem - nws yog ib tus txheeb ze.

Yog hais tias, piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv lub teb chaws Yelemees, yuav muab txoj kev uas yuav ib tug neeg laus Lavxias teb sab tourists ib tug German rooj rau lub tsheb, nws zoo nyob rau hauv nws raws li yog hais tias nws tau humiliated nws. Tab sis li ntawd nws yog nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm txawv teb chaws morals. Nws ua Lavxias teb sab German poj niam ua saib tsis taus, yog tias nws yog qaug zog thiab nkeeg, thiab nws yog ib qho insult.

Tam sim no vam thiab cia siab yog to taub, courtesy - nws yog zoo li cas? Armed nrog txoj kev paub no, tus nyeem ntawv yuav heev dawb do yuav gallant.