Self-sau qoob, Psychology
Compliments ntawm ib tug phooj ywg, thiab tsis tsuas
Txhua leej txhua tus tau ntev paub tias qhov zoo tshaj plaws khoom plig rau tus hluas nkauj - nws yog ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab. Tej zaum koj yuav tsis tau compliments los ntawm cov txiv neej uas nws hlub, ces lawv yuav tsum tau khwv tau. Tab sis raws nraim tib yam zoo li ntawd kom tau ib tug tseem qhuas kuv thiab, tsis tau tsuas yog los ntawm cov txiv neej tab sis kuj los ntawm cov poj niam. Tom qab tag nrho, cov ntxhais yuav tau mus pom ib co lus uas hais mav yuav tsis tau pom. Piv txwv li, koj yuag ib kilogram - rau ib tug txiv neej yog tsis muaj dab tsi, uas yog heev ib qho zoo rau koj. Los yog ib tug tshiab khub ntawm khau, hnab, koj yuav tau yuav luag - mav tsis pom, thiab qhov kev txaus siab rau koj. Ib yam li ntawd, koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov hais tias koj tus hluas nkauj los yog phooj ywg xav kom koj ua tib yam li compliments. Tom qab tag nrho, koj cia li xav mus hais ob peb lo lus, thiab nws yuav ua tau zoo li ntawd. Feem ntau cov feem ntau, cov hluas nkauj hais tias compliments rau nws tus phooj ywg, ntawm lub sij hawm, yuav ua rau zoo, thiab tej zaum kuj nyob rau hauv thiaj li yuav muaj ib tug kev sib tham thiab tsa nws ntsuj plig. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, koj yeej ib txwm txiav txim siab.
Compliments tus phooj ywg - ib tug heev pab tau tshaj plaws. Firstly, Yog hais tias koj xav kom nws rau ib yam dab tsi mus sib los yog nug ib yam dab tsi, nws yuav zoo yog hais tias koj pib sib tham nrog qab ntxiag lus nyob rau hauv nws qhov chaw nyob. Thiab secondly, compliments ntawm ib tug phooj ywg yuav pab tau koj txav los ze zog, pootkrovennichat. Nws yog tau hais tias tsis ntev koj dhau lawm yuav tau hnov los ntawm nws compliments nyob rau hauv nws qhov chaw nyob.
Koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov hais tias tsis yog tsuas cov ntxhais zoo li compliments, tab sis tej zaum kuj hais mav rau ntau npaj txhij mus hnov ib tug ob peb zoo lus. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj paub tias koj tus phooj ywg yog txaus siab ntawm nws sau tso tsheb hlau luam los yog ib yam dab tsi lwm tus, tsis txhob ua siab deb qhia nws seb nws tau ua li cas nws zoo kawg li sau. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, ib co hais mav li compliments ua khav, tab sis tsis txhob muab ib tug ob peb lub vib nas this thiab qhia rau kuv yuav ua li cas nws puv tawm zoo kawg thiab. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, koj yuav tsum paub tias tseem qhuas kuv thiab ib tug phooj ywg yuav xa tsis tau tsuas yog rau tus sau, tab sis nws muaj peev xwm kuj kov thiab nws cov tsos. Hais mav tsis txaus yig thaum lawv hais txog lawv cov tsos, hnav ris tsho los yog ib tug tshiab hairstyle. Txawm li cas los, Yog hais tias koj qhia rau nws hais tias nws zoo zoo thiab qhov ce nws yeej yog, koj yuav ho mus nyob rau hauv nws lub qhov muag, thiab nws yuav xav nyob xeeb dua qub thiab ua ntau so. Yog li ntawd sim compliment ib tug phooj ywg, acquaintance, phooj ywg, thiab tag nrho cov neeg uas nyob ib ncig ntawm koj. Cia li tsis tham endlessly. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yuav zoo heev obtrusive thiab implausible.
Ib txoj kev los sis lwm, tab sis compliments yog ib qho tseem ceeb nyob rau hauv tej kev sib tham. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog zoo tseem qhuas kuv niam. Tsis txhob hnov qab los qhia rau koj niam yuav ua li cas nws zoo li niaj hnub no, los yog ua rau nws ib tug tseem qhuas txog pleev. Nco ntsoov hais tias txawm tias nws zoo li cov laus, tab sis tus ntsuj plig pom tau tias ib txwm tub ntxhais hluas. Pab nws to taub nws tus kheej txaus nyiam, hluas zog tuaj poj niam, vim hais tias thaum lub sij hawm, thiab koj kuj xav hnov 20 xyoo yau.
Nws yog ib nqi sau cia hais tias compliments pab tau cov neeg tau txais los ze zog. Yog hais tias koj tsis paub yuav pib li cas ib tug sib tham nrog ib tug neeg, xyuam xim rau lub tsos ntawm cov txiv neej. Muaj tseeb koj ib yam dab tsi ntes tau kuv lub qhov muag no thiab qhuas nws: hairstyle, accessory, nkawm khau, hnab. Qhov no yuav pab tau koj nrhiav tus neeg rau nws tus kheej. Ntxiv mus, ib cov qhuas mus rau pab koj kho tus khub rau lub yavtom ntej kev sib tham.
Tsis txhob hnov qab hais tias yog koj xav thov ib tug neeg rau ib tug haum, koj yuav mus rau ib tug lub rooj sib tham, yog tias koj hais ib ob peb zoo lus nyob rau ntawm qhov pib ntawm kev sib tham. Tej zaum koj tus kheej tau pom hais tias tej zaum koj yuav raug nug hais txog ib yam dab tsi, dab tsi koj tsis xav mus, tab sis koj yog li ua tau txawv txawv tsis kam, vim hais tias cov kev sib tham pib nrog ib tug zoo daim ntawv (a tseem qhuas rau koj qhov chaw nyob). Yog li ntawd, compliments - nws tsis yog ntxim hlub cov lus hais txog cov tsos, tab sis kuj yog ib tug zoo heev yog vim li cas mus rau qhov chaw lub interlocutor mus rau lub sib tham los yog thov kom nws. Yog hais tias koj txawj kos duab rau ntawm complimenting neeg compliments yam thiab unobtrusive, koj yuav seamlessly tau kiag li txhua yam koj xav tau rau koj tus kheej.
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