Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes?

  Tsis li ntawd, txawm tom ntej glance, qhov no yog tsis ib yam nkaus thiab yees, thiab qhov xwm ntawm nws, feem ntau yuav, lus dag nyob rau hauv lub nce qib ntawm Internal kev ntxhov siab vim. Nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, yog tias koj nyiam pib mus pom ntau heev - nws yog lub sij hawm mus xav txog yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes? Cov me nyuam, gnawing tes (nyob rau hauv Ntxiv rau qhov no tej zaum yuav pib lossi yaim koj daim di ncauj los yog cov ntiv tes ib co kab, etc.) yog ua tau li sim kom siab nqig rau koj tus kheej. Thaum pom zoo li rau cov me nyuam uas tsis tau muaj tej kev ntxhov siab yam teeb meem, rau cov tsis muaj khees vim li cas - nws yog lub sij hawm mus ntsib ib tug psychologist, vim nws yog tau tsis pib ntawm txoj kev loj hlob ntawm cov me nyuam txoj kev neuroses.

Qhov kev ua tsis tau caij thiab cia siab hais tias tag nrho cov yuav kis tau los ntawm nws tus kheej. Nws yog ceev kom tau kev txiav txim thiab ua txhua yam rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes li sai li sai tau. Nyob rau hauv dab tsi txoj kev - nws yog nyob ntawm qhov ua rau, lub hnub nyoog, thiab lwm yam tseem ceeb rau cov neeg mob. Qhov loj tshaj plaws - nyob rau hauv txhua rooj plaub, tsis txhob cem nws tus me nyuam thiab txawm ntau li ntawd, tsis txhob ntaus rau nws ob txhais tes. Txwv tsis pub, tus cwj pwm yuav exacerbated, thiab deal nrog nws yuav muaj ntev thiab nyuab dua.

Feem ntau cov feem ntau, raws li cov statistics, muaj yog ib tug teeb meem zoo li nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam pib los ntawm 3 xyoo, ib nrab ntawm cov me nyuam yog tsis muaj peev xwm tawm nws nyob rau hauv thaum tiav hluas, nyob rau hauv ib co nws tseem txawm tias thaum lawv ua cov neeg laus. Qhov no tus cwj pwm tsis ua loj kev puas tsuaj rau kev noj qab nyob, txawm li cas los, sib nrug los ntawm cov aesthetic ugliness, muaj txoj kev pheej hmoo ntawm ib co kab mob thiab o ntawm periungual chaw. Uas yog vim li cas peb yuav tsum txiav txim siab yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws cov rau tes. Nrog rau qhov no, cov me nyuam nrog qhov teeb meem no feem ntau yog kev xav shackled muaj tsawg self-esteem.

Los ntawm ib tug kws kho mob taw tes ntawm view, Onychophagia (scientific lub npe rau tus ntsia thawv tom) pib mus rau manifest nws tus kheej nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam nrog stressful lub sijhawm thiab, raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm kev poob plig. Lub impetus tej zaum yuav sib nrauj ntawm niam txiv, tsev neeg quarrels los yog teeb meem qhov teeb meem no nrog lawv cov phooj ywg, thiab lwm yam yog vim li cas hais tias ib tug neeg laus tej zaum yuav tsis pom rau ib tug me nyuam muaj peev xwm txhais tau hais tias ib tug tiag tiag kev puas. Nyob rau hauv tas li ntawd, peb txiv neej feem ntau xa mus rau kindergarten, nws thiaj li pib txhawj txog raug sib cais los ntawm nws niam. Los ntawm cov lus qhuab qhia ntawm Sigmund Freud implies hais tias cov kev xav ntawm insecurity zaum yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tus me nyuam raws li ib tug tshwm sim ntawm yuam weaning nws lub txiv mis yas los yog weaning los ntawm leej niam lub mis ntawm heev thaum ntxov muaj hnub nyoog. Teebmeem zoo nkaus li thaum twg thiaj li xis nws yog kuv niam nyob rau hauv nws txhais tes thaum pub mis rau tus me nyuam thiab sim kom zoo ntaug kuv tus kheej distracted los ntawm befell nws "tu siab heev", txeeb nws hais tias txoj kev. Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes, ib tug cwj pwm uas twb tsis tsau nws thaum kawg?

Ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev txom nyem los ntawm tsis muaj kev paub, nws yog tsim nyog ntau caressing thiab puag - niam puag tiag tiag muaj peev xwm ntawm kev ua tau txuj ci tseem ceeb. Raws li psychologists, txawm cov hluas raug kev txom nyem yog hais tias lawv tsis tau kov cov niam txiv ntawm tsawg kawg yog yim lub sij hawm ib hnub twg. Cov me nyuam yuav tsum xav tias qhov kov, puag rau lawv cov tshuav nyiaj li cas thiab tranquility. Thiab nws tsis yog yooj yim, txawm ntau li ntawd tsis txhob poob kov nrog rau lawv cov me nyuam, los mus rau lawv tus cog qoob loo uas lawv hlub, lawv yuav tsum tau, thiab nws yog li ntawd ib qho tseem ceeb rau ib tug zuj zus tus neeg! Qhov no yog ib qho zoo heev tiv thaiv lub cuab tam thiab ib tug guarantee hais tias yav tom ntej yuav tsis muaj mus nrhiav cov lus teb rau lo lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes?".

Thaum qhov teeb meem sawv - nws cia li yuav tsum tau tshem tawm nyob rau ntawm ib thaum ntxov rau theem. Ua ntej koj yuav tsum paub, nyob rau hauv thaj av uas muaj ib tug yees rau obkusyvaniya marigolds. Ua li no, saib tus me nyuam, tej zaum, ces nws relieves tshee nro thaum agitated los yog ntshai ntawm ib yam dab tsi, los yog tej zaum xav tias ib tug txiav txim zoo ntawm insecurity nyob rau hauv lawv lub peev xwm. Tom qab kev kawm yog vim li cas, thawj kauj ruam yog yuav tau tham nrog koj tus me nyuam, qhia rau nws txog lub txim ntawm kev tus cwj pwm. Txawm li cas los, nws yuav tsum tau coj mus rau hauv tus account thiab lub fact tias feem ntau cov me nyuam lawv tus kheej tsis tswj, lawv ua tau los ntawm nws tus kheej.

Yuav ua li cas rau wean ib tug me nyuam tom nws tes? kev puas siab ntsws lub tswv yim

• Ua ke nrog cov kws muaj txuj pab koj tus me nyuam tiv nrog ib tug phem tus cwj pwm, nws tsis detract los ntawm nws tsis muaj reproaching, thiab ntaub thiab sib tham zoo-naturedly.
• Tshem tawm tau ntawm kev ncua nyob rau hauv txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam, mus saib ib tug psychologist.
• Lub "tseem ceeb heev" lub sij hawm ntawd, coj ib tug me nyuam tuam haujlwm txais ib qho khoom ua si, kom qhuav, khoom qab zib, thiab lwm yam Ua ib tug zoo ntawm "liab herring."
• Muab tus me nyuam mus pw tsaug zog, tsis txhob tub nkeeg thiab ua kom nws lub siab mos siab muag zaws, dua, nws yog tus hu touch nrog rau so rau qab ntxiag lo lus. Qhuas koj tus me nyuam, qhia rau kuv yuav ua li cas koj hlub nws, uas yog amazing thiab tshwj xeeb.
• Piav qhia rau koj tus me nyuam uas koj tseem nyob rau nws sab, uas ua ke koj ua txhua yam rau tham, tsis muaj teeb meem nyuaj npaum li cas nws yog tsim nyog. Tsuas yog cov xim, hlub tus me nyuam, kev sib haum xeeb thiab kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv lub tsev neeg, thiab raws sij hawm txiav txim yuav pab tau los mus kov yeej cov cwj pwm no.