Qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov poj niam. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm kev sib raug zoo

Yog hais tias koj muaj ib tug dawb lub sij hawm thiab koj txiav txim siab los muab nws nyeem ntawv, tsis txhob maj mus tos ib tug ob-rate xovxwm los yog kev hlub dab neeg nyob qhov twg puas tsav puas yam mus zoo kawg nkaus thiab yeej ib txwm xaus nrog ib tug zoo siab xaus. Nws yog zoo dua rau kawm los lawv muaj lawv tus kheej lub neej kom muaj tsawg dua cov teeb meem thiab zoo siab lub sij hawm. Nyob rau hauv no tsab xov xwm peb yuav qhia koj mus rau ib tug phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov poj niam, uas yuav pab tau kom to taub txog cov kev tsis sib haum nrog cov opposite pw ua ke, tsom xam teeb meem xwm txheej thiab nrhiav txoj kev tawm ntawm lawv. Qhov no cov ntaub ntawv yog nyob rau hauv coob cov txawj nyeem ntawv thiab cov tub txawg pom zoo kom nws rau kev nyeem ntawv. Yog li ntawd, koj cov xim yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov poj niam.

"Muzhchinopriobretenie"

Nyob rau hauv no zoo kawg li phau ntawv, Natalya Borisovna Rybitskaya qhia tsis tau tsuas yog hais txog yuav ua li cas mus ntsib nrog tus txiv neej, tab sis kuj yuav ua li cas kom nws nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov teeb meem. Nws tsis txawj hais lus ntawm lub humiliation pem lub taub hau ntawm qhov opposite pw ua niam txiv los yog cov pleas thiab thov, nws yog ib tug complex puas siab puas ntsws tswv yim uas yog muaj thiab zoo, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum zoo tseg. Tus sau qhia lub secrets ntawm qhov tseeb "self-pab", thiab yog hais tias peb ntxiv rau nws lub siab, ntse, txawj ntse siv "theem los", zoo siab nyob rau hauv nws tus kheej lub neej yog tsis ntev los tos. Yog hais tias koj xav nyob rau hauv phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov kev sib raug zoo ntawm ib tug txiv neej thiab ib tug poj niam, nco ntsoov sau txog koj lub txee rau ntawv no nthuav cuab tam.

"Basic xav"

Pw ua niam txiv, kev hlub thiab ua lag ua luam ... Yuav ua li cas muaj ntau yam teeb meem thiab tej teeb meem yog li no-hu ua "Bermuda daim duab peb sab". Igor Vagin (sexologist) thiab Antonina Gluschay (journalist) - sau ntawm lub chaw ua hauj lwm. Lawv yuav plunge txawj nyeem ntawv mus rau hauv lub feem ntau zoo kawg paub tsis meej ntawm daim duab peb sab, uas attracts thiab repels neeg ib txhij. Cov phau ntawv yog sau nyob rau hauv ib tug exciting tshiab ib hom ntawv nyeem, uas yog yooj yim dab tsi - ib tug tham qhia. Tus sau phau ntawv piav txog cov kev sib deev thiab hlub qhov kev paub ntawm pua pua ntawm cov neeg. Lawv ua li no kom ntseeg tau tias cov txawj nyeem ntawv to taub dab tsi lub psychology ntawm cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam. Cov phau ntawv yuav zoo li shocking ntau, tab sis tus sau phau ntawv tsuas piav ntau yam kev sib raug zoo raws li nws yog nyob rau hauv lub neej. Comments ntawm cov kws txawj rau txhua tus neeg cov ntaub ntawv no yuav pab koj to taub zoo dua tsis tau tsuas yog ib tug khub, tab sis kuj nws tus kheej, mus nrog rau zoo kawg, muaj siab thiab kev xav. Yog hais tias koj tab tom nrhiav rau qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm kev sib raug zoo, nco ntsoov kawm cov khoom no.

"Koj tsis paub dab tsi txog cov txiv neej"

Stiv Harvi - ib tug txawj sau ntawv uas specializes nyob rau hauv lub psychology ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Muaj ntau cov poj niam yog eagerly tos qhov kev tso tawm ntawm nws txhua txhua phau ntawv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tom qab lub stunning kev vam meej ntawm cov khoom "Tsab cai Zoo li ib tug poj niam, xav ib yam li ib tug txiv neej." Nyob rau hauv lub tam sim no ua hauj lwm, nws kuj luag ntawm poj niam cov illusions xwb thiab fictions ntawm tus txiv neej ntshai. Ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, cov fairer nrog txiv neej pw yog pom zoo rau kev nyeem ntawv hauv phau ntawv no. Txiv neej psychology rau cov poj niam yog piav kom meej meej heev thiab nyob rau hauv kom meej, noj mus rau hauv tus account lub hnub nyoog ntawm cov muaj zog nrog txiv neej pw. Stiv Harvi tswv yim yuav ua li cas zoo tshaj plaws los sib txuas lus nrog ib tug txiv neej raws li nws laub rau kev sib yuav, yuav ua li cas yuav ua rau tsev neeg lub neej muaj kev lom zem thiab sij hawm uas tseem. Tej phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm cov poj niam, raws li qhov no yuav pab mus coj lwm saib nyob mus ib txhis teeb meem, nrhiav kev daws teeb meem thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv cov kev sib raug.

"3 tseem ceeb cov lus nug. Tsev Neeg Zoo Siab "

Andrew Kurpatov - paub kev puas siab ntsws thiab psychotherapist uas paub zoo heev muaj los mus piav qhia tej yam uas thaum xub thawj zoo li to taub tsis tau rau ntau. Los ntawm no ua hauj lwm cov poj niam kawm tau li cas mus nyob rau hauv ib tug zoo siab sib yuav thiab ib tug ntev lub sij hawm. Txawm li cas los, raws li tus sau hais tias, "Tau kawg, nws yog zoo dua rau kawm phau ntawv ua ntej yuav mus rau qhov tus neeg sau npe." Tab sis yog hais tias koj twb tau ib tsev neeg tus txiv neej, tag nrho cov yam rau koj nws yuav yog ib lub cim tshwm sim. Yuav ua li cas los tsim kom tau ib tug muaj zog thiab ntev-lub sij hawm kev sib raug zoo? Yuav ua li cas nyob tsis muaj teeb meem nrog ib tug khub? Yog nws tsim nyog mus tsev lub "thawj coj"? Yuav ua li cas cais pw ua niam txiv los ntawm tsev neeg? Tus poj niam loses ntej hluas nkauj? Tsis yog txhua txhua phau ntawv nyob rau psychology rau cov poj niam muaj cov lus teb rau cov lus nug ntau outright. Kurpatov tsis tau tsuas yog teb cov lus nug feem ntau piquant, tab sis kuj muab cov kev tsim nyog pom zoo. Yog li ntawd dab tsi yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws phau ntawv rau cov psychology ntawm kev sib raug zoo yuav tsum muaj xws li qhov zoo tshaj plaws-muag daim ntawv teev.

"Kev ceeb ntshai txoj kev hlub"

Vladimir Levi - ib tug psychologist thiab psychotherapist specializing nyob rau hauv ntau yam. Phau ntawv no tus sau sau rau cov poj niam uas tab tom nrhiav rau kev hlub nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej, rau cov neeg uas cia siab los yog twv rau kev cia siab, leej twg ntseeg hais tias nyob rau hauv zoo los sis ntshai los ua tau li ntawd. Nws hais tias nws yog suab tsis yooj yim sua mus nyob ib lub neej tsis muaj kev hlub kev txom nyem, losses, disappointments. Koj muaj peev xwm, Txawm li cas los, cov "kev raug mob" tig nyob rau hauv tej caj npab rau nws tus kheej-kev loj hlob, los yog ua kom tsis txhob tag nrho cov sab teeb meem. Yuav ua li cas yog txoj cai rau koj - txiav txim siab thiab nyeem.

"Lub psychology ntawm cov niaj hnub poj niam ..."

Alena Libina tau los ua ib tug heev nthuav zaj dab neeg tej hauj lwm. Qhib phau ntawv, koj yuav tau ib tug zoo lub hlwb txoj kev kawm. Ua ke nrog nws thiab tus lwm cov neeg ntawm cov khoom uas koj ua rau ib tug tag nrho tsom xam ntawm lawv lub neej uas yuav pab koj nrhiav yuam kev twb cog lus, kawm lawv thiab tiv thaiv lawv tshwm sim nyob rau hauv lub neej yav tom ntej. Yog hais tias ib co ntawm cov phau ntawv nyob rau psychology rau cov poj niam uas qhia xwb yuav ua li cas los tsim kom tau kev sib raug zoo nrog cov opposite pw ua ke, muaj tsuas yog tus sau tsis yog tas. Ntawm no rau koj thiab nws txoj kev los tsim nws tus kheej-kheej, thiab kev ntsuam xyuas, thiab kev ua si, thiab cov dab neeg ntawm lub neej.

"Tus txiv neej yog los ntawm Mars, Cov poj niam yog los ntawm Venus"

Dzhon Grey hais lus nyob rau hauv ib yam khoom uas ib tug neeg yog zoo dua thiab uas yog zuj zus, vim hais tias cov teeb meem tshwm sim. Nws zoo nyob rau hauv lub hauv paus ntawm kev cov nyom. Peb muaj kev tsis sib haum nrog cov opposite pw ua niam txiv tsuas vim hais tias peb yog tiag tiag sib txawv, nrog "txawv ntiaj teb." Tus txiv neej thiab cov poj niam muaj ib tug kiag li txawv mus kom ze rau cov tshuaj ntawm tej yam teeb meem, lawv muaj ntau xav, cais tej yam, saib tib qhov teeb meem no. Li no qhov teeb meem. Raws li tus sau hais tias: "Nws yog tsim nyog los saib rau ib tug tshwj xeeb heev lus." Tseeb, tsis muaj nws nyob qhov twg. Thiab cia li nyob rau hauv no nyeem nws muaj "kawm cov lus" kom ploj tsev neeg teeb meem, kev hlub thiab lwm yam kev sib raug zoo.

"Cov kev sib raug ntawm kev hlub"

Otto Kernberg - MD, niaj hnub authoritative psychoanalyst. Nyob rau hauv phau ntawv no nws qhia txog yuav ua li cas hlub yuav tsum yog tus cai nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv ntawm pathology. Xam rau tus neeg mob ntawm tus kheej kev xyaum, Kernberg txog thiab piav txog yuav ua li cas nco u, excitement thiab cwj pwm txawv uas yog txuam nrog rau yav tag los, muaj tej yam loj loj nyob rau hauv cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam kev sib raug zoo niaj hnub no. Qhov no cim phau ntawv no yog nrov tsis tsuas yog cov zoo tib yam cov poj niam, tab sis kuj nrog cov tub txawg.

"Kuv khaws cov tsis ncaj ncees lawm tus txiv neej"

Dilya Enikeeva - PhD, tus kws kho mob uas nws cov phau ntawv tawm lab. Phau ntawv no yog rau nws cov poj niam uas khuv xim hais tias ib zaug txuas lawv lub neej nrog ib tug tej yam txiv neej. Ntawm no nws piav cov txiv neej nrog ib qho nyuaj cim - qia dub, tyrants, nerds, grumblers, despots, npua thiab ntau lwm tus neeg. Koj yuav kawm kom paub txog lub idlers, uas ntseeg tau hais tias cov poj niam txoj kev xub pwg nyom mas kiag li txhua yam; "Chameleon", uas sib txawv nyob ntawm seb qhov kev tshwm sim; mnimobolnyh yuav tag nrho kuv lub neej rau tsav nws tus poj niam lub qhov ntswg. Paub txog cov tsos mob ntawm tej hom ntawm cov tub hluas, koj to taub, uas yog tom ntej no rau koj. Thiab rau cov neeg uas yuav mus khi lub loj kev sib raug zoo, phau ntawv no yuav indispensable rau tag nrho cov. Nyeem, tsim, thiab muaj kev zoo siab!