Ib tug ob peb lub tswv yim yuav ua li cas rov qab rau cov txiv leej tub tom qab parting

Parting nrog ib tug neeg hlub - nws yog ib txwm ib tug mob thiab resentment, uas yog heev yooj yim los mus kov yeej. Tej zaum nws nkawd hais tias lub neej tuaj mus rau qhov kawg, tab sis nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb - yog qhov tsuas yog ib ntawm nws muaj ntau nplooj ntawv. Tab sis txij thaum koj tsis xav kom nws tig lawm, vim hais tias tsis muaj ib tug paub li cas yuav tuaj tom ntej no. Tsis li ntawd, ib qho yooj yim kom txhob hlub thiab tsis nco qab ib tug neeg tseem khi ib daim ntawm koj tus ntsuj plig, uas koj tau muab koj lub plawv. Kuv xav tau los ntawm, nws tau los ua ua ntej. Tab sis yuav ua li cas ua tau nws? Yuav ua li cas rov qab rau cov txiv leej tub tom qab parting?

Ua ntej koj yuav los txiav txim, thiab seb koj xav tau nws? Nws yog tsis xav lawv hais tias ob tug tsis tuaj mus rau ib tug dej, thiab hais tias xob laim ob zaug neeg ntaus nyob rau hauv tib lub qhov chaw. Thiab ntawm no yog ib lub caij nyoog mus rau kauj ruam nyob rau hauv tib sua koj yog heev zoo. Yog hais tias koj npaj txhij rau cov kauj ruam no thiab xav kom tau tsawg sim kom nws tuaj nrog nws tus lover, ces, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, koj tsis tas yuav ntshai, ua siab ntev thiab twj ywm xav txog txhua yam ntawm nws thiab nws tus cwj pwm. Nco ntsoov, qhov no tus txiv neej koj hlub? Thiab koj muaj nws? Tam sim no xav hais tias, yuav ua li cas feem ntau thiab nyob zoo li cas sij hawm koj feem ntau sib cav sib ceg? Leej twg ua lub initiator? Muaj tseeb muaj ib co me ntsis tej yam uas koj kawm phau Vajlugkub txhua lwm yam, tab sis ho tsis txawm sim amicably sib. Thiab rau zoo yog vim li cas. Nws tau hais ntau ntau zaus muaj pov thawj nyob rau hauv kev xyaum uas cov txiv neej - tsis telepaths, thiab yim pab tsis to taub. Thiab lawv hlub txoj kev rhiab thiab kev hlub. Yog li ntawd, nws yog tau mus cuag los ntawm nug nws txog yam dab tsi ncaj nraim, tab sis maj mam muab. Thiab sai li sai tau raws li qhov kev thov yog ua, nws yog tsim nyog los qhuas ib tug txiv neej. Txawm li cas los, qhov no yog ib tug qhia tseg ntawm dab tsi yuav ua kom paub meej tias tsis tshwm sim no me me, tsis kaj siab, kev raug tsim quarrels. Tam sim no, koj tseem yog cov tsis tau ua ke, tab sis yeej xav kom kho tau nws. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj nug cov lus nug "yuav ua li cas kom tau ib tug txiv leej tub?", Lub tswv yim uas koj yuav tsum intelligible. Ntawm cov hoob kawm, ib puas feem pua guarantee tias nws yuav xav kom tau rov qab nrog koj, tsis muaj, tab sis koj muaj peev xwm sim ua li ntawd:

1) yuav tsum tau paub hais tias nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb tsis muaj universal scale ntawm raug xwm txheej tsis tau tshwm sim. Sim mus ntsuam xyuas qhov teeb meem no ntau zoo: nowhere nyob rau hauv lub ces kaum yog tsis muab tso rau qias neeg thom khwm, uas koj yav tas los pom tsuas yog nyob rau qhov tsis hnov tsw; tsis muaj roob ntawm npias kaus poom thiab fwj nyob ib ncig ntawm lub thoob khib nyiab ua tau; tsis muaj ib tug keyboards ntawm lub series ntawm football; tsis muaj ib tug yoojyim kho siab polkotlety nyob rau hauv lub tub yees, tiam sis tsis txhob ntxuav lub phaj; tsis muaj ib tug tsis kom tau raws li cov phooj ywg thiab dai nrog lawv kom txog thaum sawv ntxov; Tsis muaj ib tug yog snoring nyob rau hauv koj lub pob ntseg thiab tsis tau raws li nrog lub txaj ... Mus? Yog hais tias tom qab no koj tseem txhawj xeeb txog cov nqe lus nug ntawm yuav ua li cas rov qab rau cov txiv leej tub tom qab parting, ces nyeem cov nram qab no nqe lus;

2) tsis xav hais tias nws yuav sim mus rau reconcile rau nws tus kheej nrog koj, tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob raug rau nws hysterically, tearing tus xov tooj thiab scribbling txom SMSes thiab cov lus nyob rau hauv kev tes hauj lwm. Muaj lub siab ntev thiab muaj nuj nqis, tsis txhob cia koj tus kheej mus nrhiav tu siab heev thiab nyuaj siab "broshenkoy". Yog, mus rub kuv tus kheej ua ke yog heev yooj yim, tab sis tsim nyog. Tsis txhob tig nyob rau hauv rau lawv tus kheej thiab ua tib yam li, koj ua dab tsi ua ntej lawv tau ntsib nrog nws tus txiv neej. Tom qab koj yav tas los nyob tsis tau nws? Thiab koj ua tau tam sim no;

3) Lub kauj ruam tom ntej nyob rau hauv qhov teeb meem ntawm "yuav ua li cas rov qab rau cov txiv leej tub?" Yuav pab tau raws li koj lub xov tooj hu rau nws (tom qab ib co sij hawm ntawm tiav silence) thiab kev mus ntsib nyob rau nruab nrab teb chaws. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis thov los yog quaj. Cia li ua twj ywm lub suab hais rau nws hais txog lub rooj sib tham. Yog hais tias nws tseem hlub koj, nws yuav pom zoo;

4) nyob rau hauv ib tug lub rooj sib tham tuav ib tug phooj ywg thiab nyob ntsiag to, tsis txaws rau nws thiab turbulent cwj pwm txawv, yuav lawv zoo los tsis zoo. Khaws ib tug tsawg profile thiab cia li qhia rau nws paub tias koj nco nws: yuav nyob tsis muaj nws, tab sis nws tsis yog averse mus rov qab mus rau "qhov zoo qub hnub." Yog hais tias ua cas tsis kam rov qab sib raug zoo, cia li tig ib ncig thiab mus kev deb. Tsis muaj hysterics thiab lub kua muag. Hysteria thiab yuav quaj nyob rau hauv tsev thiab tsis muaj tim khawv;

5) ua tau, txawm tom qab lub "tsis muaj" tag nrho yuav tsis ploj: Tos ib lub lim tiam, tej zaum nws yog lub sij hawm rau ib tug ntau sober kev soj ntsuam ntawm qhov teeb meem no thiab hloov nws lub siab. Koj siv nws los raws li rov qab txiv leej tub tom qab parting tsom lawv txaus siab nyob rau hauv nws thiab ib tug zoo siab hlo mus ua concessions. Yog hais tias nws yeej hlub koj, thiab yog tseem tsis yog ib tug neeg ruam, nws yuav tsis muab koj lwm lub caij nyoog thiab nco ntsoov hu. Yog hais tias nyob rau hauv ib lub lim tiam, nyob ob tug, ntawm nws tsis tau ua raws li tej "gestures" - zoo, Humble nej tus kheej, koj tsis tas yuav nws ntxiv lawm, yog li ntawd koj yuav xyuam xim tig cov nplooj ntawv ntawm nws lub neej mus rau lub tom ntej no, nthuav ntau thiab tag nrho cov zoo cov txheej xwm.

Hopefully, cov coj kev pom zoo nyob rau hauv yuav ua li cas rov qab rau cov txiv leej tub tom qab parting yuav pab tau koj npaj koj lub neej txoj kev uas koj xav kom ua li cas.